Recently diagnosed

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hi all    I was recently diagnosed with stage 1 grade 2 and am having a lumpectomy in 2 days time.  I am extremely anxious about the op but in terms of the cancer I just feel numb -not sure if it’st shock but I just don’t know how to feel   - I have had the odd moment of tearing up but trying to put a brave face on it all   -any advice and help would be appreciated 

  • Hi there

    I had a lumpectomy a week ago today, after 8 cycles of Chemotherapy, and it all went very smoothly. I was anxious beforehand but the anesthetist and the surgeon both spoke with me and put my mind at rest.

    I was very well looked after. I went in at 8am, got my operation around 12.15pm and was home by 6pm. I have had no problems and have had very little pain. I haven't had to reach for the painkillers yet!

    My treatment started at the beginning of March and I have to say I have been very well looked after at every step. I was a bit like you with the cancer. On auto pilot really and just wanted to get the job done. Haven't cried yet but feel I might do once I know the lumpectomy was successful and they got all of the cancer. It's been a tough 6 months but I am nearly there. Radiotherapy to go! Not sure how I feel about that but will face it head on with as much positivity as possible.

    I hope your surgery goes well, I am sure it will. All the very best with the rest of your treatment and your recovery x

  • Thank you so much I really appreciate you taking the time to reply   I hope all continues to go well for you x

  • Hi  

    I’m sorry you have to be here, but welcome!

    There’s no right or wrong way to feel about a cancer diagnosis. It’s a big thing and takes time to process which people do in different ways. 

    Similar to you, I was diagnosed with a Stage1 Grade 2 last year and had a lumpectomy. Like  I was very well looked after and it was nowhere near as bad as I thought it would be. In and out the same day and, apart from a few minor hiccups, a quick and full recovery. 

    If you have any questions then please feel free to ask away. I hope everything goes smoothly for you. x