Had surgery and waiting...

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Hi!

I was diagnosed with grade 1 breast cancer at the end of July. At the beginning of October I had my lumpectomy and sentinel nose biopsy. Just over 4 weeks have now passed and I haven't heard anything from the hospital,  even after having rang them twice for more information regarding my follow-up appointment.  I suffer from depression and the waiting is getting me down and I feel lost.  My husband and family and friends are being so supportive - which is great and I love them all dearly,  it just doesn't get me answers. 

I know I'm not the only one feeling this way and there are others out their feeling like me - but how do you cope? Am I being a pest for ringing the hospital to find out what's going on?

Thanks for listening...

Karen 

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    Hi Karen welcome to the forum and i so very sorry to hear what is happening for you. In answer to your query are you being a pest to keep phoning? Most definetely NOT and keep pestering the life out of them until you get some answers. That does seem a little longer than would have bene expected for results to have come back so you are right to chase this and please do let us know how you get on.

  • I’ve got a 5 week wait for my results but when I rang to query it was because the surgeon was on holiday… it’s desperate waiting though xxx definitely keep ringing 

  • Hi the long waiting times are horrendous. Im also waiting to see which treatments lies ahead and got an appointment in 4 weeks time. Ive had single mastectomy and node clearance. Hang in there and try and get to speak to someone at hospital good luck x

  • Hiya.. so sorry to hear this.  I'm going through something similar. My consultant told me, I would have to wait anything between 6 and 8 weeks after the op.

    Try to keep yourself busy, which is helping me.  

    Hope that helps!