My mom got a breast cancer, which is very aggressive...

sorry to hear about your mom, but once you are on a path its probably best to stay on it as starting over might be a few steps back.

its hard to be patient, but it will happen soon. the first part is a lot of waiting to get a plan in place. hugs

Thanks. Your words relieve me a lot. I didn't ever know that being patient was this hard 

Hi Mudhopper, sorry to hear of your mom's diagnosis.  The waiting at the for tests, scans, results, surgery is the worst part at the beginning.

Stay away from Google as the info online can be out of date.  Have a read of people's experiences on here, it's really helped me.  I think there may even be a group for carers and relatives.

Everyones journey is unique but if it helps I was diagnosed Grade 3 and waited about 6 weeks for surgery.  I'm just waiting for the lymph node biopsy results. 

xx

Thanks for the advice, I sincerely hope your surgery was successful.

Hi I'm sorry you have this news, it's best to stay with your Doctors as the team have discussed your mum's case and treatment going forward. I know the waiting is hard but you are with them now. Did you see a Macmillan nurse at the same time? Call them there is lots of support for you and your mum take care xx

I've just searched Macmillan nurse, and it looks like it'll be a great help in understanding the pathology, thank you so much for the valuable information.