Recently diagnosed

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Evening all, I was diagnosed on Thursday. I get my treatment plan tomorrow. I know it will be a mastectomy, chemo and radiotherapy. The only thing they have not decided on, is what order the treatment will be. I am feeling OK, mostly up, the odd down mostly when I have to tell friends snd family. They have all been really supportive. I've had a lot of adversities in my life coping with multiple disabilities. I'm hoping the same mind set will help me through this. Have a plan, keep putting one foot in front of each other and on a really bad day hope tomorrow is a little better. 

Keep strong and positive. X

  • Hi Bewitched

    Welcome to the forum and sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with breast cancer.

    Wishing you the best of luck with your treatment.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • Hi Bewitched, I’m so sorry you’ve been diagnosed with Breast Cancer it’s the worst news.
    I was diagnosed a week ago I was in complete shock and been very up and down. 
    I’ve had my CT scan yesterday and my Oncology appointment today, I do feel a bit better now I know what’s going to happen, I’ve got Chemo first then an operation followed by Radiotherapy looks like my first session will be in a week to 10 days. 
    Please keep me posted how you get on with your treatment plan and appointments it’s good to talk to someone goof through the same emotions. 
    Sending positive thoughts 

    Sasha 

    • Hi Sasha, thanks for your response, sorry to hear your going through this as well. I'm glad you have the start of your treatment plan in place. When life throws you a curve ball I've found having a plan takes away a lot of the stress and worry. It gives you something to focus on. Hope the chemo goes ok. Please let me know how you get on. You're  a little in front of me. Keep strong and positive 
    • Bewitched
  • Hi Bewitched 

    I am so sorry you’ve been diagnosed  

    I was diagnosed on Thursday too. I haven’t told my grown up kids yet and really don’t know where to start. 
    I have my treatment plan appointment on Friday and scans on the 14th. 

    like you say one day at a time and stay positive. 

    Please keep in touch 

    best wishes

    Nette67

  • Just come off the phone with my nurse and then are going surgery 1st. See the surgeon on the 11 Aug and I will hopefully get a date then.

  • Hi Nette67

    Welcome to the forum and sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with breast cancer. There is a booklet called Talking about cancer on the Macmillan website which you can look at online or contact the helpline on 0808 808 00 00 and ask for it to be sent to you.  Here's the link to the booklet: Talking-about-cancer-and-your-feelings (macmillan.org.uk).

    Best of luck with your appointment on Friday and your scans on the 14th.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • Glad to hear that they are going to do the surgery first.  Hopefully you won't be waiting to long for it.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • Thank you so much Daisy53

  • That’s good. Hope it goes well for you and it’s not too long a wait 

  • Hi Bewitched and sorry you find yourself in this situation, but you have a great attitude towards it and that's a winner in itself. I had my mastectomy back in February, then tamoxifen and radiation, continuing with tamoxifen for the next 5 years. If I am honest I felt numb as far as my feelings were concerned up until May time, then I had emotions surprise me from all over the place. I wish you all the best with your treatment,  any questions regarding mastectomy just shout and if I can help I will xxxx