This journey

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After a routine mammogram in the middle of April, I was called back 3 weeks later for another mammogram, followed by a scan. I was given an appointment for a biopsy the following morning. Having seen the anaesthetist, I'm having a lumpectomy on Monday. Strangely, I'm not at all worried about the operation itself, a bit nervous of course, but not actually worried. Is this normal? My husband seems to be more concerned than I am.

  • Hi PollyG

    Welcome to the forum and sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with breast cancer. There is no right or wrong way to react to a cancer diagnosis so what you are feeling is perfectly normal. 

    Wishing you the best of luck with your operation.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • As Daisy says, there’s no right or wrong way to feel, everyone reacts in the way that’s right for them. 

    I wasn’t worried about my operation either. Whilst it was the first for breast cancer it wasn’t the first operation I’ve had, so I had some familiarity with the general process which helped. I was worried about them getting clear margins (they did) and what the sentinel node biopsy would find, but for the actual operation I had faith in the team looking after me. 

  • Thanks Daisy53, I'll try to remember that, and not feel 'wrong'.

  • Hi CarrieDecember

    I think I'm more worried about the fact that I throw up after general anaesthetics than about the op! Thanks for your reply, I feel better about it now.