Hello, I am due to start radiotherapy on Tuesday for 3 weeks after having bilateral diep breast reconstruction surgery in Nov '22.
Ive had radiotherapy in the past in 2001 after a breast lumpectomy so I'm not too concerned about it really it's about the margins ie that the cancer was near my skin so radiotherapy was suggested.
I carry the BRACA2 gene which is why I got diagnosed a second time in my other breast.
I feel well, as I have done since my operation. I just don't like to see my 3 daughters upset for me.
It's twice now that they have had to go through this with me and as strong as I am and as well as I feel I know that they are going through probably just as much worry etc.
I know this is long winded for a first post but it needed to be out.
Hi Zuma, wow! What a strong individual you are going through so much. Its always better to talk about these things. When I talk about my breast cancer , people get upset because they don't like to see me upset . No one can take our pain away or how we feel day to day. They worry for various reasons, to see you in this situation and not being able to take it away. The fear of the unknown. All on can do is stay positive and take each day as it comes. Its comes with highs it comes with lows. Stay strong and always best to talk about your feelings and ask them about there feelings to. It's a time to support each other. I hope this gives you a little comfort. Wishing you all the very best for the future xx
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