Recent diagnosis

Former Member
Former Member
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Hi all 

A quick introduction

Was diagnosed last week and one of the worst things so far has been telling family and friends. I'm very up and down and angry. I'm hoping this settles because it's a nightmare for my husband. 

We emigrated to Spain 2 years ago and even though we both have medical issues we have settled well and enjoying the lifestyle and culture. Then this. I don't think why me because why not me but even so the timing is poo.

I'm going through all the prep op stuff and waiting for a date for an operation. From all the tests so far they've diagnosed it as Stage 1 hormone fed tumour. They don't believe it's affected the lymph nodes but will be making an incision and using a contrast to make sure. The incision to remove the tumour is going to be quite large but they have offered reconstruction as a separate operation. At this point I don't think I'll bother. I'm 62 and not that bothered what I look like but I've kept the option open. Then it's hormone treatment and possibly radiotherapy.

Any advice would be appreciated 

  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi . Welcome from a recent newbie . The only advice I can give is take one step at a time . Plans can change . Get your op date and deal with that then tackle what is coming next . 
    xx

  • Hi

    i sailed through the op - pain and discomfort were much less than expected.  I too was advised  that lymph nodes weren’t involved but that changed after they examined them under microscope. They found a small deposit in one lymph node so now my radiotherapy has gone from one to three weeks. 
    I haven’t found the treatment particularly gruelling but my goodness … my head has been all over the place.  

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Sharon1961

    I hope I sail through mine . Love reading the positive posts .

    I am a die hard and never poorly . I’m praying i sail through it . 
    xx

  • You’re like me then! Never ailed anything and have sailed through surgery - only 3 weeks radiotherapy to do and I’m finished!! 

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Sharon1961

    Hi .

    You we’re right the op wasn’t an issue . Very little pain .

    Just waiting in the results now .

    I came out Monday at 6pm I was up and about the following day . Actually shopping for an Hour .

  • Former Member
    Former Member

    How you doing Lozespana?

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Hi Lazy Daisy. Glad the op went well. I've had my pre op and now just waiting for a date. I'm surprisingly good and your post has helped a lot.