Hi

Yes. You have had a terrible shock, the rug has been pulled from under your feet, and all the balls have been thrown up in the air. Be gentle with yourself. There is a Macmillan helpline that you can ring (number on main website) for advice about work and money. It’s a free number, and from my own experience, they know what they are talking about. You’ve come to a kind and supportive place. Xx

Thank you claudier for your kind words. It’s good to have support of those that truly understand my fears xx

Hi Peoni

I agree with Cloudier. I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in March this year. Whereas now I am post op and starting a short course of radiotherapy next week. I do remember the feeling of shock, tiredness and being very emotional. I dont think I slept much for the 4 weeks from diagnosis to operation. The Macmillan Support Line is a good source of advice. They can advise you on so much. I managed to get emotional support in the form of counselling via BUPA and monetary support with a grant as I have no income. Take care. x

Hi, welcome to the club that no one wants to join, but you'll find lots of friendly support on here.  My advice is to try not to panic. It helped me to focus on what I knew, as best I could.  I worked throughout all my treatment, and whilst I know not everyone can and I was lucky with having manageable side effects, it's with knowing we all react differently once you understand your treatment and how you react, it might not be as difficult as you fear. Best wishes 

Hi Devon 

thank you for your support and advise. I am going to call the helpline. Like yourself I am struggling to sleep. I think I also feel guilty about my job as I don’t feel I can focus on this right now. It’s good to know there are support mechanisms out there it’s opened my eyes x

Hi 

thank you for your words and yes it makes a lot of sense what your saying. I need to be careful not catastrophize the road ahead but look at it as a journey of discovery and a new chapter x

The support line will keep your details on the system. So there is continuity.I felt embarrassed contacting them but there support was amazing and no question is daft. Good luck with your journey and I hope you get the support you need and want. x

Thank you x