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HI, welcome to the group. I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis and the waiting for the results - it can be the hardest part to wait for the results and your treatment plan. There's lots of help and advice on here and I hope you find it a huge support to you as you go through your treatment. xx

Hi Zadi welcome sorry you have had to join this group but you will find everyone really helpful and supportive whether you want to just have a good moan or ask advice there is always someone on the end of the line I hope you don't have to wait to long for your results and that your treatment goes ok sending cyber hugs xxxD

My hubby hasn't accepted any of this. He is being very pessimistic. Not really supportive at all

 he probably doesn't mean to be unsupportive he is probably just trying to adjust to the situation and not knowing how to help you so going for the head in the sand approach my children are a bit the same unless I say I need help they just carry on their lives as normal but as soon as I say I need help they are there do you have anyone else you can talk to to get the support you need at mo till your husband come round  

You can tell us your worrys we may not always be able to help or physically give you the hugs you need but we can listen understand and tell you our story's  it does help

My parents are flying over from Trinidad & Tobago. Will arrive Friday. They're supposed to be staying here but my daughter has covid and the house is in a mess. I haven't seen them in 3 yrs. My hubbleaves to return to work in norway on Thurs. Don't worry im testing everyday. So far so good. Negative all the way. I don't want to get it. I guess they will have to stay at bmy brother who lives nearby by.. Ineed mental strength..

You have got this your parent won't care if the place is a mess or that they need to stay with your brother they will just be so pleased to see you and if they are anything like my mum will just wanto hug you and take all the pain and scaryness away in the way only your parents can do. sorry to hear hubby needs to go away to work at this time but maybe it will give him time to get his head rou the situation and give you time to think just of yourself and have a good cry when noone else is there it  sometimes helps this is such a horrid situation which goes from 0-100 so quickly one day yr fine then you find a lump then before you know it it's test and biopsy talks with consultant s desisions to make about treatment that your not really sure of then if it's chemo all the scaryness a feeling a bit unwell that goes with it  it sometimes seems as thought you are always at the hospital and it can be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but you will get there most of the nsultant s breast nurses and oncology nurses I have come across have been amazing giving tipp s when needed and hugs and tissues too and hopefully this is what you will find if not keep talking to uwe will give you all the support we can enjoy your parents being there make sure you have some fun times and make memories to keep you going hope you daughter is soon feeling well too

That's really nice and positive things to hear. Many thanks 

Hi Zadi

Welcome and sorry you're needing to be here. I'm fairly new too and I am waiting on CT scan results after positive breast lump and lymph nodes result. Hopefully your husband will be less pessimistic once he processes things. My husband has not been negative but is sleeping even worse than I am.

Best Wishes

Stripey x

I didnt sleep well last night. I was up every hour. I'm waiting for a call from my consultant. Very anxious