Hi, I’m new on here, I had a mammogram last May and after a misdiagnosis and long story I was told I had breast cancer in October of last year. I have had two operations since January of this year and was told I would have to have just radiotherapy, however they found in my last operation the tumour had grown and found a further tumour. My HER was negative but I am now waiting for an oncotype test from America to decide if I need chemotherapy or not, lots has happened in the meantime, I would like to ask if any of you experienced any strain on your marriage during your diagnosis and treatment, I thought this would bring us closer together but we seem to argue more than ever! My husband feels I push him away and don’t talk to him yet I feel he doesn’t ask so I tend to speak to friends more and other people who are going through the same thing. I’m finding I’m getting angry quickly and saying things I shouldn’t really be saying! Is this normal or is it just me?
Any advice would be most appreciated as I don’t want to have breast cancer and lost my husband.
thank you xxx
