New and nervous

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Hi all, 

Ive been following this group for a while but decided to sign up tonight. 

I noticed a change to my nipple in February, was treat for mastitis by my GP then referred to the breast clinic when it didn't clear up. 

I had biopsies taken a few weeks ago, I have a mass behind my nipple and in one of my lymph nodes. Initially results show the mass behind the nipple is DCIS but the mass in the lymph node is metastatic...... Which is very confusing and has me worried sick. 

Am back with the consultant on Friday to see what more theyve learned from the biopsies.

Having good days and bad days. Today is a bad day.

Thanks for listening

  • I just want to say…we are here. There lots of us here trying to support you….just shout!

    I am 4 years post diagnosis…and this chat  has been essential….guiding…..just helpful….helping me hang in there…these marvellous people are here and listening…

    You are not alone….

    GGx
  • Hi So sorry to hear this, it must be incredibly worrying for you. I found that the early uncertainty was the worst and once I had a treatment plan things got easier to handle, but I can empathise with what you are going through right now. I hope you find some ways to distract yourself until you get your results kn Friday. Good luck

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  • Thanks so much for your kind words. I appreciate it so much. I felt unsure about posting but am glad I did.

    4 years. Wow! What a journey. I hope your keeping well and that day is a good and kind day. 

    Thanks again

  • Thank you so much for taking the time to reply and for your kind words.

    I keep thinking that once I know and can form a plan, I'll be ok...... But today I cant get the words metastatic and secondary out of my head. Its such a roller coaster of emotions. 

    I hope you are keeping as well as you can and your treatment plan is going according to plan. 

    Thanks again, I'll let you know what they say on Friday xx. 

  • Hi  let us know how you get on Friday. Here for you. Jo x

  • Hey, not long back from the hospital.

    Feel loads better now we know more about the cancer, its receptors and what the treatment plan will look like.

    Gonna start with chemo. 

    Awaiting MRI, CT scan etc xx

  • Hi there 

    It feels so much better ( not really the best phrase !) when you have a plan doesn’t it . It’s still frightening and overwhelming but you feel you’re actually getting something when you’ve got a plan in front of you 

    Good luck with the upcoming scans etc 

    love L xx

  • Good you have a plan, just shout if you have questions.

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  • It really does feel more managable when there is a plan!

    I really hoped it would be a straight to surgery route so I could keep working for longer (Im self employed and my work is my muse) but that's not the way it goes.

    Straight to chemo means my work wont be possible so Im gonna make the most of pre chemo, pre cancer life with my kids and family.

    Having the weekend just me and the kids, a few more days of ignorance then I start sharing the news and await treatment..... 

    Thanks so much for your support. 

    How are you doing? 

  • Thank you, I definitely will! I think Ive just read your blod post on another thread about chemo and what you wish you had known before. So useful and helpful, thanks so so much for sharing!

    I hope your keeping ok? xx