Hi all. I have just joined this forum. It may be a bit quick to do so but was hoping for some support and friendly advice. For the past few weeks ive had a swollen breast with heavy feeling and found a good sized lump at the top of my breast near my underarm. I visited my local GP today who did a quick exam and immediately agreed with symptoms and said she was doing an urgent referral to breast clinic. Now my mind is in overdrive of the worst to come. I am a single mum to a daughter who is Autistic and ADHD diagnosed so I already have my hands full and the thought of having the wait for test
and everything is terrible feeling at moment. I am sure so many of you have been in this position and I was just wondering how you all coped with the fear and worry of waiting and wondering. I haven't been able to eat all day for the worry and the thinking of all the what ifs. Hoping for some pick me up advice. Love to you all fighting right now
. Amanda x
Thank you for reply
Yes. I am sitting here wishing it would be the day for tests and finding out but also wishing it wasn't. Thinking how am I going to wait for the appointment. Thank you for advice on what to possibly expect on day. Wasn't sure if it was a day of all tests or a back and forth to hospital situation. Haven't researched as feel anytime you google it makes you worse. X x x
Hi, as Grogg says, the waiting is the worst. You are right not to Google, don't give in to any temptation as we are all unique and Google does not understand that, I kept busy, focussed on the things I could control, and that helped me to cope a bit better with the waiting. Don't hesitate to chase up if you don't hear about your appointment by the end of the week. And good luck
It should only be morning or afternoon, not all day. My one stop shop in 2015 and 2021 were 8.30am job. They had 5 of us in same time so they process quickly as it starts with mammogram, which doctor reads , calls you in - there will be BC nurse with doctor. The doctor may do Ukraine sound and examination and discuss their thoughts. Then there may be a biopsy - it's ok ! First time in 2015 I had the lot big last year in 2021 sent away after doctor - read my profile by clicking on my name. You can't normally take anyone on with you either !
Thank you for sharing the further information as to what happens on the day. Its good to know so i can prepare a bit more on what to expect there and what happens. Hopefully it will come in soon for an appointment so I can move on with the tests and see what's happening. Thank you for your replies. It is definitely helping me feel a bit less lost as to what's happening next. Xx
Thank you for reply. Yes. Google will only have the worst of everything won't it. I was trying to plan busy activities with my daughter this week and weekend to stay busy and focused. Harder when you're sitting down yourself to stay positive isn't it. Thanks, the doctor has told me i need to wait at least 2 weeks before i call them back to chase referral. I am in Glasgow, scotland so i don't know if here we have the same 2 week referral. Thanks xxx
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