I was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2002, I had a lumpectomy and radiotherapy. This was very hard as I was only 34 at the time. I was then diagnosed in 2016 and I had a single mastectomy no further treatment was needed.
I was offered reconstruction in 2018 which I had & it was great as I had struggled with my mastectomy.
my reconstructed breast was slightly smaller so the surgeon offer to make my breast symmetrical. This was delayed because of covid but I finally had it done in May this year.
I was asked to see the surgeon who done my operation in June and thought this was just a check up but they had found cancer in my breast that they took away.
I threw my self back into work and carried on as normal until I had the op in September. I had a mastectomy & reconstruction all at the same time. I’m recovering well physically but not quite sure mentally.
Hi Bert11,
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through such an unexpected diagnosis shortly after having a symmetrical surgery. I can only suppose that its been the very last thing you expected to hear.
Dealing with diagnosis, surgery and waiting to hear from Consultants seems like ages to me and I have only had my surgery 10 days ago...
I do agree that sometimes mental recovery may be affected more than physical. There are days that I feel OK, but also days that I find myself stuck in my thoughts about Mr Cancer. I presume, It takes more time for our mind to adjust to the new situation but what I found useful is distracting myself every time my thoughts come back.
Have you heard about Look Good Feel Better online workshops? I have signed myself into a few and looking forward to move on with it. Anything that can distract me from thinking about Mr C is highly appreciated.
Wishing you all good and sending warm hughs.
K
I have to say though my mental recovery took much longer than physical recovery. I am sorry its been really tough for you. Would you then be asked to go for chemo? Not sure what your diagnosis is but make sure you get the pathology report. I find my surgeon doesn't say much if I don't ask.
C x
Sending you best wishes you've had a really difficult time don't be too hard on yourself its a long journey to recovery xx
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