My journey so far

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I was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2002, I had a lumpectomy and radiotherapy. This was very hard as I was only 34 at the time. I was then diagnosed in 2016 and I had a single mastectomy no further treatment was needed. 
I was offered reconstruction in 2018 which I had & it was great as I had struggled with my mastectomy. 
my reconstructed breast was slightly smaller so the surgeon offer to make my breast symmetrical. This was delayed because of covid but I finally had it done in May this year.
I was asked to see the surgeon who done my operation in June and thought this was just a check up but they had found cancer in my breast that they took away.
I threw my self back into work and carried on as normal until I had the op in September. I had a mastectomy & reconstruction all at the same time. I’m recovering well physically but not quite sure mentally.  

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    Hi Bert11, 

    Thank you so much for sharing your story.  I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through such an unexpected diagnosis shortly after having a symmetrical surgery.  I can only suppose that its been the very last thing you expected to hear.  

    Dealing with diagnosis, surgery and waiting to hear from Consultants seems like ages to me and I have only had my surgery 10 days ago... 

    I do agree that sometimes mental recovery may be affected more than physical.  There are days that I feel OK, but also days that I find myself stuck in my thoughts about Mr Cancer.  I presume, It takes more time for our mind to adjust to the new situation but what I found useful is distracting myself every time my thoughts come back.  

    Have you heard about Look Good Feel Better online workshops? I have signed myself into a few and looking forward to move on with it.  Anything that can distract me from thinking about Mr C is highly appreciated.  

    Wishing you all good and sending warm hughs.

    K

  • I have to say though my mental recovery took much longer than physical recovery. I am sorry its been really tough for you. Would you then be asked to go for chemo? Not sure what your diagnosis is but make sure you get the pathology report. I find my surgeon doesn't say much if I don't ask. 

    C x

  • Sending you best wishes you've had a really difficult time don't be too hard on yourself its a long journey to recovery xx