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Welcome to the group. 

Like you I was and still am very calm and took a positive outlook to my diagnosis. My attitude was that I've got BC and there is nothing I can do about it but get on with the treatment plan I've been given. But just be prepared for days where you want to kick out against the world and shout why me. You may want to cry, that is a good thing I've been informed, scream but the thing I found helpful was baking it kept me busy and my neighbour really enjoyed the cakes I made. I'm a person who likes to feel in control of my life and body but with BC you are reliant on the professionals around you, so the only advice I can really give is take each day as it comes, ask lots of questions, I have also found this group really helpful in answering questions that I've had and lastly tell people, you'll be surprised at the support they can give.

All the best for your journey. 

Hi Tipsywitch, nice to meet you

Pragmatism and strictest were very helpful for me. I have just had a left mastectomy on 29th Nov and I’m on the mend (back driving from yesterday).  Good luck with your operation on Wednesday, will be thinking of you and please let us know how you get on and if you need anything we are always here! 
Take care of yourself and take it easy xxx

Hi Rumple01 

Thanks for your kind words of support.  
Wow - you’re driving already!  That’s good to know, as I was expecting to be grounded for quite a while.  How do you get on with the seat belt though?  I would imagine it could be tricky.

x

Hey, seat belts been fine. I haven’t had reconstruction (I have went flat as I just wanted it all to be over and so far feeling ok) and ended up with a sentinel node clearance and 2 lymph’s removed so luckily didn’t have full axilla clearance as I believe this is tougher. I have an automatic car which also helps Also will do anything to get a cappuccino and a scone so there was a good incentive for me. 

Hi Tipsywitch (love it), 

Sorry to hear about your diagnosis, sounds like it’s been a really speedy journey for you from finding lump to op.  I think I haven’t read it very well, sorry! What surgery are you having next Wed? I’m having a masectomy and reconstruction next Tuesday, been a long wait for me, but nearly here. 

Virtual hugs Mickey x

Hi Mickey

It’s been decided that I’m having a mastectomy on Wednesday, and I’m perfectly fine with that.  Was offered a reconstruction but declined.  Yes - it’s been a bit of a whirlwind few weeks, from discovery of lump to surgery, and I’ll be so glad when it’s sorted.

All the best for Tuesday xxx

Hi Tipsywitch, 

Im glad that you’re perfectly fine with the masectomy. It’s good to be offered some choices, gives us an element of control back, I think. 

I must admit, I just want the cancers gone now. 

I’ll be thinking of you Wednesday and all the best to you too xx 

I am new here and made my first post the other day.  I have just read yours and what an inspiration  to read your mind 'set' if that is the right word. I too will be thinking of you all.

I just admire those of you who can seem to get your head into another place.  I try but that bloody 'woodpecker' keeps tapping into my head.  

xx

Hi Primrose13, 

Im so sorry that I missed your first post the other day. Try as I might I find it impossible or to keep up with the posts. 

I’ve just read your first post, but I’m not sure I got it right - apologies. Is the next step for you stereotactic biopsies under mammogram? If so, I had those too a few months back.  Do you have any dates for next steps? 

I think you’re right in that having been here before, it is no longer the unknown to you, even if procedures might be different pending on the suspicions. I can understand that will make it harder for you, so please be kind to yourself about how you’re feeling. As I keep saying, it’s such a rollercoaster if a journey, but for every dip, you will come backup again. 

I’m quite scared about Tuesday, truth be told and these last few days are dragging. There lots ahead that I don’t want to face, but I know I have to - I have to do my best to get rid of these cancers. I hold onto that. 

Sending virtual hugs and positivity to you - Mickey xx ️

Thinking of you and I will reply in my post so as not to take attention away from you. xxxx