Hi,
I was told from my recall today that I have breast cancer and need an op. However full results not available for another 2 weeks. At least I know I have it I suppose but with no family history of cancer it was totally unexpected. I've had numerous investigations for unexplained anaemia and am awaiting result of a camera capsule endoscopy.
Scaring myself that the two are linked and that I also have it elsewhere. I know nightimes will be the worst times. I'm not researching on Google for sure.
Went from hospital to my best friends who disclosed she was diagnosed 2 weeks ago!! What a day.
If anyone is wondering why I call myself Elephant Lady it's because that's how my community refers to me. I volunteer with rescued Elephants in Asia though I guess that won't be happening again any time soon.
I agree waiting for the results is the hardest part. I knew I had axillary node involvement from the off and I had two weeks to wait too. I’d been having gastro issue for well over a year and had decided myself that the two were probably related. They weren’t. All that worry,more for my daughter than me. I guess we’ve just got to try and remember that yes we have breast cancer but we can be ill with other things too and stuff doesn’t have to be related. You honestly can drive yourself mad with what ifs. Funnily enough a close friend was diagnosed 6 weeks before me so we also felt shocked that could happen but we’ve been a great comfort to each other so I hope you have the same experience. You will volunteer with those elephants again, and try to stay involved in whatever way you can, keep your elephant heart beating! Good luck and know we all feel similarly x
Hi Elephant Lady
Welcome to the forum and sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with breast cancer. Breast cancer is very treatable these days and your medical team will do everything in their power to make sure you get better. Waiting for results is hard but once you get those and a plan is put in place you should start to feel better about things.
Wishing you the best of luck with whatever treatments your medical team put you on.
Best wishes
Daisy53
We all panic occasionally and all have low points, keep talking, we’ll keep laughing where we can and we can bolster each other, so pleased you’re having a better day. I’m sat here farting for England!! Chemo yesterday, just as well I’m single!!!
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