Thank u Diane for your reply. I hope you are feeling ok after yr op and not in too much pain. I was given 4 options having been diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer. 1 mas with recon at east grinstead 2. Mas with silicone implant (altho cant hav radiotherapy with that option and consultant says i need that) 3. Mas alone. 4. Lump with radio and hormone meds. After deep duscussion we hav all agreed lump option (hope that was the right option to chose!) because as far as she can tell there is only one lump she will take sentinel lymph nodes too. My boys are 23 and 31, youngest still living at home. My husband is very supportive, and actually said yesterdsy he is really worried that i may not come through the op, i hav AF, so could be difficult which is why reconstruction would hav to b delayed she wouldnt risk a 6-8hr op. I myself hadnt even given that a thought, i just wanted the cancer out, but then it seemed like it wasnt me they were talking about - weird. I suppose u are right, any emotion is a good emotion, there is no right or wrong in this and we are all different, thank u fr yr reply, very supportive
