Waiting for results and scared

FormerMember
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Hi

I found a lump under my arm a week or so ago and my GP referred me to the breast clinic, I had a mammogram and an ultrasound and the radiologist said the lump under my arm is fine however there was a lump in my breast about 1.5 cm which has  worrying features. I then had a biopsy of which I am waiting for the results, as yet I have not been contacted but they said it would take approximately two weeks. She said I may need an MRI too but not had any calls yet…my biopsy was last Friday.

I am resigned to the fact that this is not good as I have been before for cysts and they have been able to tell me there and then that they are okay, I am 51 years old and when I was 25 I had breast cancer in the same side. I asked the radiologist if it was bad what would happen she said I would have a mastectomy.

I am so frightened of the unknown and what my future holds, I know we’re all feeling that way when we are waiting diagnosis and just need some positive help and how to deal with this please.

I live on my own so that doesn’t really help as I have a lot of thinking time and I’m panicking of how I will cope if I have to have a Mesectomy and chemotherapy.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I know it sounds easy to say, but try not to worry... when I had my biopsy, they made an appointment there and then for me to see someone for my results after 5 days. If they're making you wait, maybe they don't think it's that bad. I'll keep my fongers crossed for you x

  • Hi Jai1970

    Welcome to the forum and sorry to hear that you may have breast again. Hopefully the fact that they said that you'd have to wait two weeks for your appointment means that they are not too worried about the lump, 

    Treatments for breast cancer have come on along way since you last had it.  As you no doubt know your medical team will do everything in their power to make you better.

    Try to keep yourself busy doing the things that you love to help keep your mind off things. I find going for walks and reading help me when I'm feeling anxious about things.

    Wishing you the best of luck with your appointment.

    Best wishes

    Daisy53

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Jai1970

    I'm so sorry you find yourself in this position. It is a really scary time. As Daisy53 says, treatment has come a long way, and your clinical team will swing into action around you should the news be bad. They will take you through everything and will always be available for you to talk to should you need them. I am was diagnosed in September 2020 and have been blown away by the amazing service and support from the NHS and the clinical team looking after me. Please don't despair. If you are diagnosed with cancer you will not be left alone to struggle on. And keep using every support you can find, whether it's this community or any other charitable link such as Penny Brohn. 

    Very best wishes and I'm thinking of you

    MollyBee  xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you. The waiting game is horrible isn’t it.

    x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Daisy53

    Thank you Daisy, yes I do need to keep busy and try to think of positive thoughts. When I was diagnosed 25 years ago it was a dark place, there was no internet then so I think it’s also bringing back those thoughts, this forum is really helpful and makes you feel not so alone.

    x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you so much for your reply. Yes I will make sure I interact with others if the worst happens and it’s nice to know there is a good support network out there. 

    x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    It must have been awful for you when you were 25; that experience is bound to influence your expectations. There is such a community of support, advice and encouragement nowadays, that you don't ever have to feel alone again. x