Hello
I’m new to this so wanted to introduce myself. Two years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. It had spread to my lymph glands. I responded amazingly well to chemo and, after a mastectomy and complete lymph removal was given the “all clear”. This was amazing as we have a young son.
Two weeks ago I had two partial seizures. With hindsight there had been signs before but it had been put down to peripheral neuropathy, and MRIs of spine had come back clear. Anyway... I now have secondary breast cancer in my brain.
Tomorrow I go to find out my treatment plan. There is no cure, but maintenance. My husband and I are very positive people, and with a young son I have everything to fight for. I have been told no two people are the same - there are some already 10+ years in to their maintenance treatment. I also know this isn’t the case for everyone.
We haven’t worked out how to tell our son yet. I’m hoping he will take it in his stride like he did two years ago - but 5 and 7 are completely different ages!
Anyway, I wanted to introduce myself. I am happy to be here to help support you through your journey too if you would like.
Stay strong, stay confident... you’ve got this - and if you need a chat, I’m here for you!
I can’t tell you how good it was to read you’re positive comments, I admire you so much.
I’m ashamed to say I’m a quivering mess waiting for results of my biopsy, I can’t manage to see any positivity!
Good luck...., but I know you will handle it all with your strong, positive outlook xx
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I am new to all of this, including writing on Forums.
I am sorry that you find yourself in the position you are. I admire your positivity so very much. It must be hard with a young son. Know you are not alone. I am sending a big hug even though you don't know me. I wish you well today and know that you are loved by your family.
MrsPolly, don't be so hard on yourself. We were all quivering mess waiting for results. You will see positivity once you have the results and know where life is going to take you for a time. Just take one day at a time and know that there are people who love and care for you.
One step at a time, One day at a time.
Best wishes
I am amazed at the positive attitude that shines through, I will try and channel a little of it!
Best wishes to you, wherever you are on this journey. x
Hi Mrs Polly
I had Thyroid cancer in January and had it removed in Feb. I was then diagnosed with DCIS in April after 5 biopsies. I am due to have breast surgery on the 4th of June. Where they are going to remove a large section, with the possibility of further surgery. I will find out two weeks after the first surgery.
You just have to be positive. Medicine has come a long way and I have had good care so far. I am lucky I have a great husband and family around me. And for the first time in my life I have asked for help and have received it. Sending a big hugs.
Best wishes.
Thank you. I will take all the positive energy coming our way. Every tiny little bit helps x
Hi there. I just saw your reply to this brave lady and I wanted to just say that my mum had a 2 week wait for biopsy. She found a "lump" and it was 11cm by 8cm (not mm) and the breast doctor confirmed this size. Both scans she had the mammogram and us was clear. She had 4 core biopsies and luckily after 2 weeks we have found out it is periductal mastitis... totally benign and doesn't increase the risk of breast cancer. I know you must be besides yourself with worry but another user told me that the majority ofbiospies came back benign and not cancer. Due to my mum feeling I'll and the size of the supposed lump I was convinced I was going to be told my mum has breast cancer but she doesn't. I just want you to try and hold onto hope my love. I know the not knowing is torture but you will get through it one day, one hour, one minute at a time. I wish you all the best of luck.
Always good to hear of positive outcomes.
Thank you for your kind words x
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