DIEP Reconstruction

• Hi there. I had SMX with immediate DIEP at end of January this year. It seems a huge operation and it is but luckily we are asleep . I won’t lie the first 24/48 hrs are tough but my advice is take all pain relief offered and don’t be afraid to ask for more. Once drains are out you will feel a lot more comfortable and hopefully be able to go home. 
  I found a v shaped pillow a godsend as you have to sleep on your back for 6 weeks. Lots of pillows to prop you up and put under your knees.
•  I was walking pretty upright by the end of the second week but don’t rush it we are all different. Take your time and be kind to yourself. 
  It really does get better, start massaging as soon as wounds are healed it really helps with swelling. And don’t judge your new boob for at least 8weeks. I couldn’t bear the look of mine before thatut now it’s fantastic! Can’t wait to get the other one made smaller to match
• most important keep a sense of humour! 
  There is a great site on Facebook DIEP reconstruction Uk . Full of wonderful ladies who are going through the same thing. 
  Good luck and big hugs xxx

Hi there.

Thanks for getting back to me and for the great advice. Do you feel like you are back to some sense of normality again now?

How long did it take to feel like the wounds were healed enough to start massaging?

Glad you managed to keep your sense of humour - I think that’s exactly what will get me through it all too!

The Facebook group that you recommended - is it DIEPCJourney - Breast reconstruction after mastectomy? I will try to join that I think. Good to be in touch with people why really know what you are going through.

Have you any advice as to what bras I should buy?  Or pj’s/ nighties for the hospital? 

Thanks again for getting in touch. Can’t wait til I’m at the stage you’re at!!

Sending big virtual hugs. xx