And so it begins!

FormerMember
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Hi, I’m a 46 year old with three daughters and I was diagnosed with stage 2 invasive ductal cancer on 9 February.  If I recall correctly I’m HER2 negative and the cancer is estrogen fed.  After further investigation of calcifications I’m having my pre-op on Monday and surgery Friday. I’m having a mastectomy possibly without reconstruction. I don’t want to sound vain but I was dealing with things when I thought I could have immediate reconstruction. Obviously the priority is removing the cancer but I’m a F cup! I think I’ve gone through every emotion possible. I have a great partner and extremely supportive friends but I honestly don’t know how I can get my head around having one boob. I know things could be much worse and I’m grateful the cancer was caught early.  My thoughts go out to everyone who is experiencing something similar.  

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    FormerMember

    Hello Elmreed 1

    1. i too am in a similar position to you, I’m 42 idc pro/est + her 2_ grade 3. I too will have a masectomy with no reconstruction, I’m absolutely petrified, I can’t get my head around it either it’s a living hell. I too am a large cup size, put I just didn’t want all the extra surgery on top of everything else, there is lovely support in this group with advice from ladies. X
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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you for your reply. Do you have a date for surgery?  

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Elmreed 1

    I have surgery in just over a weeks time, I’ve had some helpful replies from ladies that have gone through the surgery already.I was the same after being told my diagnosis and I was going to have a reconstruction but it’s all the extra surgery involved, like you say at the moment it’s getting rid of the bad stuff that needs to be gone.

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    I hope all goes well, I have my pre-op on Monday so will know more about what’s happening on Friday.  I’m fine most of the time and then night time comes and my mind wanders.  I hope all goes well with your surgery and recovery.