It seems I'm a patient now!

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But not a very patient one! 

I've at least got a diagnosis, it's invasive ductal cancer grade 2, but still small, oestrogen receptive but looks as if I might get away with the lymph nodes....and maybe not too much treatment afterwards? 

Complex plan, but to begin with, a sentinel node (plus another one or so) removal as day surgery, (a nuclear medicine visit first to get 'the jab' for them to trace) then a gap while that,  plus the HER result come back, then because of my previous surgeries for cysts and the fact one resulted in a massive haematoma, therefore scar tissue, I will have a complete mastectomy with an implant. That will be immediately after Easter. 

By finding out as much as possible beforehand, the surgeon hopes to prevent too many operations. Obviously I will then need Tamoxifen or similar, so will appreciate helpful advice about that. 

But I'd be interested on anyone's 'take' on her plan. I feel reassured that she took time with me, and the BC nurse afterwards spent a good while too. 

Hugs xxx

  • I felt quite stressed yesterday, I think things have got in top of me a bit, last night I did have a weep into my pillow which helped a lot. Slept deeply.

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Bless you Moomy, glad you slept well after your weep and release of stress.

    x

  • I'm glad to hear you slept well last night. Thankfully, so did I.

    I hope you will continue to feel better today and be compassionate to yourself!

  • Not surprising that you are feeling stressed dear  . Lots to contend with re your son and his hubby (hope they get early negatives) and it’s a funny old time of year, particularly as it’s still relatively early days since your loss of your lovely hubby. Funny how weeping really is a release, glad you then slept well. And today is another day! Sending love and a big virtual hug your way, HFxxxx

    HappyFeet1 xx
    Don’t be afraid to cry. It will free your mind of sorrowful thoughts. – Hopi
  • My stress has eased hugely, I tested negative again this morning so a fill 6 days after seeing son, I’m now at daughters, having had an incredible Henry-welcome! Can’t believe he’s almost 4!

    hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Glad to hear you've got to your daughter's and that Henry is looking after you. 

  •   hope son and his hubby test negative soon. Good you’re at daughters after feeling so stressed. There’s a lot of viruses going about, including Covid. We had a nasty virus last month, lasting a few weeks. I can’t believe it’s Christmas this weekend. I’ve not felt particularly festive this year. I’ve yet to make my wreath and put mams little tree up. Think that’s going to be on Saturday the pace I’m going at. My favourite day was the Solstice yesterday ... Spring is on its way. 

    Wishing you and your family a peaceful Yuletide Christmas tree

    “ The only constant thing in life is change “

  • We’ve decided that due to daughters vulnerability (she’s still struggling after a bug she caught in August) that we will get together at mine on the 30th, they will all be van staying overnight so we can all have drinks and then they will all be going off to a friends for New Year celebrations. I looked up on an NHS website which suggested 10 days after testing positive to mix with a vulnerable person, by which time I guess any viral load will be gone. 

    It makes an odd Christmas, Son in laws brother got it too so that means their elderly mother will be alone for Christmas. 

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • I feel for you all. We are gathering as a family on 2nd January as the train strikes make it difficult for daughter and boyfriend to get here.

    Funnily enough, I got an email a few days ago saying if I got Covid I was eligible for one of the treatments. Yesterday a pack of lateral flow tests arrived.

  • Henry is so affectionate! 

    hugs xxx

    Moomy