It seems I'm a patient now!

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But not a very patient one! 

I've at least got a diagnosis, it's invasive ductal cancer grade 2, but still small, oestrogen receptive but looks as if I might get away with the lymph nodes....and maybe not too much treatment afterwards? 

Complex plan, but to begin with, a sentinel node (plus another one or so) removal as day surgery, (a nuclear medicine visit first to get 'the jab' for them to trace) then a gap while that,  plus the HER result come back, then because of my previous surgeries for cysts and the fact one resulted in a massive haematoma, therefore scar tissue, I will have a complete mastectomy with an implant. That will be immediately after Easter. 

By finding out as much as possible beforehand, the surgeon hopes to prevent too many operations. Obviously I will then need Tamoxifen or similar, so will appreciate helpful advice about that. 

But I'd be interested on anyone's 'take' on her plan. I feel reassured that she took time with me, and the BC nurse afterwards spent a good while too. 

Hugs xxx

  • I went to sit with hubs, practised my Duolingo French (with apologies!) and got comfy with arms onto the chest of drawers, put my head down and fell asleep! 
    crazy!

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • But if you slept......even if a little stiffly.....it did you good...........

    And the French......?.Are you coming for a visit next year? You're very welcome......

    P.S. We still have to wear masks in supermarkets, to enter cafes  and restaurants, any public building and for  all of them except small supermarkets, show a vaccination pass. Also nearly all 12 to 18 years were vaccinated before school returned in September and now they need a pass too. There are some anti freedom protests but numbers get smaller each week as they realise the simple way to do things is vaccination..........I know UK were quick to start vaccination but I think, if you look at western Europe , they have gone backwards.

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  • Hahaha! I’m brushing up but am not very good! I stayed with hubs in Le Touquet for a week years ago, and at the start I got answered in English, but by the end of the week, in French, so my schoolgirl French was improving! 

    Yes the sleep helped, thank you 

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Sitting up with hubs who seems worse tonight, son will come in if needed, daughter is on her way. However, hubs is gently snoring now!

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Hubs is waking now and then talking rubbish but all I do is reassure him and he’s back to sleep again 

    hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • We all had a fairly rubbish night taking turns to be with hubs but this morning we got told off for doing so, I think he had just had a very bad evening and night which had alarmed us. He is just such a strong minded man! 

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • District nurse popped in, asked if I would document any Oxynorm hubs has so they know what, when and how to calculate, as hubs had some at 7am today. She advised me to keep clear for an hour or two, as he was a bit peeved with someone always with him! Men!!!!

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Sending  more love and hugs  xxx

    Onwards and flatwards (don't do hills) and keep walking if you can!

  • Ah , it’s called ‘damned if you do, damned if you don’t’ - so hard for you all. You are being a wonderful support both to dear hubs and to your lovely children. And btw I agree with all you’ve said about parent/ child expectations, my sentiments exactly. Bet your kids adore you for it! I just wanted to mention that my dad made a point of telling us (once he knew that his cancer was terminal) that he didn’t mind if he was alone when his time came. He didn’t want us left with any guilt about not being there at that moment. He felt that it was important that we all knew that and in the event none of us were there so I was glad he’d said it. Of course I still wished I’d been there but it helped that we’d talked about it several weeks before. Please ignore this if it seems like interfering or inappropriate. 
    Sending huge hugs and love to you and your lovely family, HFxx

    HappyFeet1 xx
    Don’t be afraid to cry. It will free your mind of sorrowful thoughts. – Hopi
  • Son and I just got roundly told off again, hubs was thinking he might need commode and we tried to help but he decided he didn’t in the end, ‘clear off then’ was what we got once he was settled back down! 

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy