It seems I'm a patient now!

moomy I was sad to hear your news although touched to think that you were all together and that your darling husband got to listen to his children as they played him music yesterday!

Tonight I will light a candle and take a few minutes to think of you all. 

Thinking of you and your family Hun. Remember we are all here for you. Day and Night xxx

I’m so sorry to Moomy . Sending your hubs the fairy dust tonight xxxx

There was a lovely private moment, we were waiting for the funeral van to remove him and I was packing away the chairs that we had used to be comfy in his room, there was nobody there except me, and I heard a gentle sigh. In a way it was a wee bit worrying but also very, very calming and tender, I went in to see him one last time and kissed him and thanked him. 

Oooh . Please be ok .

Lots of love

Penelope xx

Dearest sweet moomy, 

I am so sorry to read of dear Hub's passing. You have showed great strength outwardly over this time and together with your children have given Hub's such support over these passed days.  You have shared so much love and my goodness for your dear Hub's to of heard his loving children play music 'just for him' must of been so heartbreakingly beautiful.

You have done your dear Hub's so proud, to of given your husband the peace, the love, the kindness and the caring during this time, a time when there are so many unknowns and questions of doing right or wrong - you trust, (faith) and instinct has carried you all though this in such a wonderful way.

I am a great believer in opening the window to let the soul fly free.  My dear dad passed in the ICU at the hospital and I remember looking around for a window - worrying that my dear dad would be trapped there, thankfully, there was a small window above dad's bed.
Your Hub's is free to fly.

Your dear Hub's is now pain free and at rest, now is the time that you need the love and support from your children, together you will get through this - you will, take it one hour and one day at a time.  Every time you feel upset try to recall all the good times you have shared and more so knowing you gave your hubby the most smooth and peaceful send off - take strength from know that you did this.

I send you and your family love, strength and my sincere heartfelt sympathy.

With Much Love, xxx

Oh moomy his last goodbye, at peace and settled always looking over you xx I hope you rest easy tonight and send love and strength for the next days and weeks ️

My post would not post just, I thought I had lost it and it came back, so now it has posted.  

I wrote "Your Hub's is free to fly" - I was going to add after this 'remember to look around for signs'.... I did think, I can't/shouldn't type this and then I read your post ......

What an amazing experience for you to share, like 'there, there, its done' - I feel this will give you great comfort over the coming time.

Sending you tight squiggy hugs xxxx

Dearest moomy,no words can really express how you all feel but I hope these ones may help

Those we love remain with us,for love itself lives on.

And cherished memories never fade because a loved one's gone.

Those we love can never be more than a thought  apart,

For as long as there is memory they'll live on in the heart.

Sending sympathy and hugs to you all xx

Beautiful words Kwissy x

Oh moomy, it was expected but still a terrible shock. You have been an amazing stalwart support for him through all of it, and have cared for him so lovingly and well. Sending love, hugs and strength to all of you xx