But not a very patient one!
I've at least got a diagnosis, it's invasive ductal cancer grade 2, but still small, oestrogen receptive but looks as if I might get away with the lymph nodes....and maybe not too much treatment afterwards?
Complex plan, but to begin with, a sentinel node (plus another one or so) removal as day surgery, (a nuclear medicine visit first to get 'the jab' for them to trace) then a gap while that, plus the HER result come back, then because of my previous surgeries for cysts and the fact one resulted in a massive haematoma, therefore scar tissue, I will have a complete mastectomy with an implant. That will be immediately after Easter.
By finding out as much as possible beforehand, the surgeon hopes to prevent too many operations. Obviously I will then need Tamoxifen or similar, so will appreciate helpful advice about that.
But I'd be interested on anyone's 'take' on her plan. I feel reassured that she took time with me, and the BC nurse afterwards spent a good while too.
Hugs xxx
Is he definitely starting treatment in Tues moomy? No more delays surely. And have the hospice people been to sort out his pain meds? What a difficult time you are having. Sending hugs xxx
Onwards and flatwards (don't do hills) and keep walking if you can!
No, Tuesday is to sign consent and find out, and then Thursday for the hospice at home team, things are moving still so slowly!
My back is a combination of left sciatic nerve and sacro-iliac joint I think, both of which bother me from time to time but not usually together. It improves with rest and stretches but then the pain starts up again when I move, grrr.
Hugs xxx
Moomy
So tonight I experimented, to keep potatoes sufficiently low in potassium they need to be boiled and then drained, so I boiled chip shapes for 10 minutes (too long as they began to break) then drained, rinsed and then deep fried. Success, they were fine. Hubs ate enough, plus just over half a fillet of sea bass and a couple of florets of cauliflower followed by cheesecake strawberries and cream.
He enjoyed his dinner, that’s a good result.
Hugs xxx
Moomy
Footstool, perching stool and bath seat delivered and fitted.... remains to be seen how well they work, though he says the footstool is comfy
hugs xxx
Moomy
Hubs has slept quite a bit this afternoon but I did manage to get him to walk around the garden. Sadly it seems he is more frail each time he does, and it’s the cancer rather than the spinal stenosis that’s doing it.
He feels too sick for dinner this evening, he hasn’t been sick for several days, I do wonder if it’s the worry of the journey and consultation in Oxford tomorrow (he does brood an awful lot, and worries about everything too)
Hugs xxx
Moomy
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