But not a very patient one!
I've at least got a diagnosis, it's invasive ductal cancer grade 2, but still small, oestrogen receptive but looks as if I might get away with the lymph nodes....and maybe not too much treatment afterwards?
Complex plan, but to begin with, a sentinel node (plus another one or so) removal as day surgery, (a nuclear medicine visit first to get 'the jab' for them to trace) then a gap while that, plus the HER result come back, then because of my previous surgeries for cysts and the fact one resulted in a massive haematoma, therefore scar tissue, I will have a complete mastectomy with an implant. That will be immediately after Easter.
By finding out as much as possible beforehand, the surgeon hopes to prevent too many operations. Obviously I will then need Tamoxifen or similar, so will appreciate helpful advice about that.
But I'd be interested on anyone's 'take' on her plan. I feel reassured that she took time with me, and the BC nurse afterwards spent a good while too.
Hugs xxx
Sadly the nausea has returned this evening. I just hope the meds do their stuff and he can cope with dinner, albeit a smaller helping.
hugs xxx
Moomy
He coped, had an omelette and a small glass of milk to keep blood sugar levels as even as possible. And it was 3.6 this morning so ok.
He has a blood test at the surgery to check potassium levels this morning, just hope all is ok as I don’t want any scares any more!
Hugs xxx
Moomy
Hope you get a bit of a chance to relax moomy! And hopefully once hubs is started on the immunotherapy and he’s had his hospice referral, they’ll get his nausea sorted. Fingers crossed for potassium levels too. Love and hugs, HFxx
Ah yes, potassium levels; they said once he responds to treatment they should improve and we might be back to a normal diet then!
Just hope they don’t want to start treatment on the Thursday as it won’t be possible to book transport?! Unless they can do it, that is..... I’ve booked it for next Tuesday, clinic is 11 so we only have to be ready for 9, so that’s getting going at 7, much more human than 6 this week!
Hugs xxx
Moomy
That all sounds more hopeful looking forward moomy, thank goodness for your persistence! And a 7am start is definitely better than 6. Bet you both can’t wait to just get started with the treatment and hopefully regain some normality to everyday life. Xxx
I’m impressed with Oxford, I had 3 phone calls letting me know the time, just in case nobody had done so! Two other folk, one working from home, plus the specialist nurse we met double checking we knew!
Hubs has had a reasonable day and is now enjoying a favourite tv programme. I’m cherishing the times he does what he loves.
Tomorrow it’s forecast to be fine so we are going to pot on the tomatoes. They are thickening up nicely, come in each night as even though they aren’t fully outside, they will still be tender for about another month. Then I think it’s plant another few peas.....
Hugs xxx
Moomy
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