But not a very patient one!
I've at least got a diagnosis, it's invasive ductal cancer grade 2, but still small, oestrogen receptive but looks as if I might get away with the lymph nodes....and maybe not too much treatment afterwards?
Complex plan, but to begin with, a sentinel node (plus another one or so) removal as day surgery, (a nuclear medicine visit first to get 'the jab' for them to trace) then a gap while that, plus the HER result come back, then because of my previous surgeries for cysts and the fact one resulted in a massive haematoma, therefore scar tissue, I will have a complete mastectomy with an implant. That will be immediately after Easter.
By finding out as much as possible beforehand, the surgeon hopes to prevent too many operations. Obviously I will then need Tamoxifen or similar, so will appreciate helpful advice about that.
But I'd be interested on anyone's 'take' on her plan. I feel reassured that she took time with me, and the BC nurse afterwards spent a good while too.
Hugs xxx
Poor man isn’t coming home tonight, they want to monitor him particularly since he’s been having hypos and not always knowing and especially since he’s had a long period without food today. We are both gutted. Biopsy access was from his front, they aimed for the liver where the scan suggested mets, the nil by mouth was purely in case of a bleed, when of course they’d have had to use a general anaesthetic to control it.
we’ve just had a family FaceTime to cheer us all up, as I’m gutted too of course.
Hugs xxx
Moomy
Hi moomy, sorry to hear that Hubbby is staying in hospital tonight , but better that they observe him especially as he has been starved for so long. It is almost bound to have messed up his diabetes even with the glucose drip. By tomorrow it should have all settled down and he will be able to return home . Sounds as if they are very hopeful that they have got good biopsies this time..Glad you had a family Facetime and they wouldn't keep him in any longer than they thought necessary. Fingers crossed for tomorrow . Big hugs Kwissy
Oh moomy that’s a real mixed bag of news.... good that the biopsy seems to have gone well re getting a decent chunk of stuff to analyse; not so good that it hurt; and sad that he didn’t get home. But best that they keep monitoring him till he’s stable.
Fingers crossed that you are happily reunited tomorrow. Love and hugs, HGxxxx
All seems set for today, his PICC line removal can be done in the ward which surprised me. We just have to wait (doesn’t everyone?!) for Pharmacy as there are an awful lot of take home meds, quite a few are new ones.
Hugs xxx
Moomy
Good morning Moomy, I hope you get him home soon he has been through so much both of you have.Being in the same room together will be such a tonic for both of you i am sure.Hubby will have to take things easy but i'm certain he will be just happy to be home with you and his family. will keep my fingers crossed that pharmacy get all his bits together quickly and he get home soon to you.
love Clare.
So glad biopsy done moomy, sorry it was so painful, and that the diabetes is all over the place. Fingers and toes crossed that he can come home today, and you get that Covid jab sorted. You have been so brave nd resourceful. Sending love and hugs xxxx
Onwards and flatwards (don't do hills) and keep walking if you can!
Still waiting in Pharmacy to get his meds made up and ready, was supposed to have been discharged this morning, I’ve bet on 4pm, but he thinks he will still be there at 5.30! The discharge officer is onto it as there’s someone else in exactly the same situation!
Hugs xxx
Moomy
Jeez! Now he’s got to go back to the hospital on Monday for a blood test; and suddenly they’ve decided he has to be taught how to inject himself with heparin. (He’s been doing insulin for years, is there much difference?)
that presumably will mean another chunk of hours for Pharmacy to get the heparin ready!
home today? Midnight perhaps......!!!!!!
Hugs xxx
Moomy
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