It seems I'm a patient now!

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But not a very patient one! 

I've at least got a diagnosis, it's invasive ductal cancer grade 2, but still small, oestrogen receptive but looks as if I might get away with the lymph nodes....and maybe not too much treatment afterwards? 

Complex plan, but to begin with, a sentinel node (plus another one or so) removal as day surgery, (a nuclear medicine visit first to get 'the jab' for them to trace) then a gap while that,  plus the HER result come back, then because of my previous surgeries for cysts and the fact one resulted in a massive haematoma, therefore scar tissue, I will have a complete mastectomy with an implant. That will be immediately after Easter. 

By finding out as much as possible beforehand, the surgeon hopes to prevent too many operations. Obviously I will then need Tamoxifen or similar, so will appreciate helpful advice about that. 

But I'd be interested on anyone's 'take' on her plan. I feel reassured that she took time with me, and the BC nurse afterwards spent a good while too. 

Hugs xxx

  • Poor hubs, tomorrow’s menu sounds awful and tonight’s cheese sandwich was pretty dreadful too he says. I just hope they can sort him out a decent snack tonight, he’s gone rather quiet after our family facetime.....

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Apparently he went to bed and fell fast asleep! 
    we talked later, his late snack was cornflakes, toast and marmalade. Blood sugar held up to 3.4 a bit low but just about ok this morning. 
    ward round says he’s ready for discharge, I’m bothered about the biopsy though as they will need to book a bed for 4 hours as he apparently needs to lie down afterwards, if that’s done as an outpatient it will be a pain to get urology to sort it, knowing how useless they are! 
    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Phew! Have been burning the phone with calls to the hospital, biopsy is booked for tomorrow! So the ward doctor told him, and then the urology nurse told him and was there to persuade him to agree to stay another night, he’d already decided to! She still hasn’t phoned me back although she promised to do so! (Not holding my breath as I know they are not good at returning calls!) I forgive her as she just did phone! Phew! 

    Happier now that it’s at least booked! Just hope third time lucky they get some cells to get a result!!! And I will be so happy to have him home?!

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Wow , things seem to be moving at long last. Well done you for persisting and fighting hubby’s corner. And good for hubby being sensible and staying in until after the biopsy! Everything crossed for a successful biopsy and a plan of action. Love and hugs, HFxx

    HappyFeet1 xx
    Don’t be afraid to cry. It will free your mind of sorrowful thoughts. – Hopi
  • Oh I hope so, , it’s been crazy! 
    hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Strange this time, it’s nil by mouth for 6 hours beforehand.... but then i had no idea about the previous one of course. He’s asked for an early breakfast and today’s food was pretty rubbish so I hope his blood sugar holds up ok! Diabetic nurse was supposed to be seeing him to help him sort out a new regime. Not sure they’ve been anywhere near! Ah well I expect everything will all be done in a rush tomorrow. And he’s going to the new ward after the biopsy, in the new cancer block. 

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

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    hope biopsy goes really well today, and there are clear results.  And also that things go to time so that blood sugar doesn’t become an issue.  Hope you can have a bit of a relaxed day and won’t need to be chasing anyone on the phone. 

    Judith

  • Thank you Judith/, I hope they succeed this time, third time lucky! (I’ve got my lucky socks on!) 

    I have a haircut booked this morning!!!!

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Keep these lucky socks on , surely third time lucky! Hoping for good news later. Fingers crossedFingers crossedFingers crossedLove and hugs, HFxx

    HappyFeet1 xx
    Don’t be afraid to cry. It will free your mind of sorrowful thoughts. – Hopi
  • All done and he’s back on the ward, to lie still and also not eat for 4 hours. Poor chap! Thank goodness they put up a glucose drip! 

    He said it was a bit painful, they did use local anaesthetic only (I wondered about the nil by mouth might mean he’d be sedated but no) but the Radiologist said they got what he described as ‘nice pink stuff’ which we hope was fresh tumour with complete cells! 

    I now wait to hear if and when he can come home.....

    Hugs xxx

    Moomy