Well. Welcome to this thread.
You may be surprised why it is here or happy it is here. Then again: ‘You have got to be joking! Do you know what is wrong with me?’ may be your response.
This all began on the Extreme Fatigue thread. On there several people wanted and needed inspiration/incentive to get out and walk. Many people see the benefits of it in their life and to help on this; mad journey, train ride, rollercoaster ride and other positively rude words journey called Breast Cancer.
It is not a thread created to make anyone feel less than they do at present. It is not a thread that will set people against one another. Being competitive with yourself or a simple challenge to yourself is the point, but not a race against others is a key premis.
The idea is that you can do any of these or none:
Well here goes.
Either it will grow and blossom, with lots of lovely people benefiting. Or I will have egg all over my face – not for the first time in my chequered life and career.
Leolady – may be adding in the odd gallop to my walks.
PS if you don't like us don't be cruel.
Fabulous photos all, love your postcard compilations Lacomtekp.
How lovely to meet up Tired Minion and Mag123, beautiful gardens.
Have been walking with friend who stayed with us for a week, often talking too much for photos! Saw loads of butterflies on a walk earlier this week - here are my Marbled White and Comma if you can spot them! Xx
We went out today as respite for our daughter. Lovely day planned exploring favourite beaches and harbours away from the one we live at.
Though low point was when hubby asked if we could possibly not talk about my cancer on our day off........ i suppose he had a point and i didn't argue but did feel needled, what day off?? I have it every day.
(‘Daddy’s taking us to the zoo tomorrow, zoo tomorrow, zoo tomorrow, Daddy’s taking us to the zoo tomorrow, we can stay all day’) anyone remember that song? Violetsniff…..not sure which one though?!
Spindrift, people can be a bit selfish, sometimes without realising that it can be very hurtful when you’re still trying to process it all yourself.
Hugs xxx
Moomy
Violetsniff Not sure it the zoo moomy. Never been to this place but my.clue would be off with their heads …glad they let you out Violetsniff
Was hoping to post photos of Skelton village show ,the first since covid . approx 10000 expected visitors so is classed as one of the largest shows to be classed as Village show . Weather stepped in with area specific rain storm ( no rain two mile away ) ground became a sodden quagmire. Set up tractors stuck at 6.30am so decision made to cancel .
we found out at 9am
Had already made picnic ( don’t eat from catering vans ) and put evening meal in slow cooker . So where to go decided on Gretna Via motorway but return by Solway coast road more of drive than walk . Showery with gusty winds .
plus local traffic heavy
Love this road ..it a tidal area so there are poles stating if water here it is 4/6/8 ft deep so can be nerve racking if unusual high tides arrive
Lovely to get out to just walk and natter Happyfeet1. Love the butterflies. We had one red and black beaury last week but otherwise none despite tge buddhleia being out. We also only had our first bees since early May yesterday and srill just two. Are they hiding from this changeable weather?
Spindrift I can quite understand your hurt and surprise at your OH's comment. My husband had cancer some years ago and I know what it is like from both sides. It is so awful when you get the diagnosis yourself but you just go through the processes and procedures whereas the partner just feels helpless and is frightened too. Perhaps he was just trying to make it a special day for you both where the Cancer and all its ramifications on your lives could be left at home for the day. I can understand from tge patient pointbof view tgat actually having his attention for the day you might have felt itcwas a good time for you to share some of your feelings about the diagnosis and whst you are going through. It is a difficult time for the whole family when someone gets such a diagnosis and I guess we all deal with it in different ways. Sometimes tge OH is in alignment and provides the support needed. Sometimes, like mine, they are so busy with work tgey don't provide support at all. But we fruit loops try to be here for each other x
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