Walking back to Happiness

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Well. Welcome to this thread.

You may be surprised why it is here or happy it is here. Then again: ‘You have got to be joking! Do you know what is wrong with me?’ may be your response.

This all began on the Extreme Fatigue thread. On there several people wanted and needed inspiration/incentive to get out and walk. Many people see the benefits of it in their life and to help on this; mad journey, train ride, rollercoaster ride and other positively rude words journey called Breast Cancer.

It is not a thread created to make anyone feel less than they do at present. It is not a thread that will set people against one another. Being competitive with yourself or a simple challenge to yourself is the point, but not a race against others is a key premis.

The idea is that you can do any of these or none:

  1. Post when you have walked.
  2. Post how many minutes you walked for.
  3. Post how you felt before, during or after. Or not at all.
  4. Post pictures from your walk, but ones that do not point to where you live.
  5. Post inspirational quotes, thoughts or comments.
  6. A simple like of people’s efforts is fine. No need to write an essay unless you feel the need.
  7. On a safety note. Do tell friends, family or the thread when you leave and return safely. Be aware of your personal safety at all times.

 

Well here goes.

Either it will grow and blossom, with lots of lovely people benefiting. Or I will have egg all over my face – not for the first time in my chequered life and career.

Leolady – may be adding in the odd gallop to my walks.

PS if you don't like us don't be cruel.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to moomy

    Today I had an unexpected opportunity to drive over Ashdown Forest (Winnie the Pooh country). I grew up near there and have spent many hours and days with friends, family or on my own walking. I realised how much I miss it. I only live 45 mins away now but don’t have much cause to be over there.  I went to a special location, the bench in this picture is dedicated to my Dad who died nearly 21 years ago from lung and bone cancer. I had a good chat with him and cried quite a bit (in a nice way). There was no one else around and it was very calm and peaceful. A special moment.

    i think I will try and get over there more often.

  • Ooooh, , that looks so lovely 

    hugs xxx

    Moomy

  • Snowdrops!!!,

    ooooooooo

    and ,getting over your chemo cloud...congrats...

    and ...so peaceful xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Northerner

    Hi Northerner

    Well things didn't quite go to plan. Trigger fingers didn't get done! Appointment was cancelled. So two more weeks with fingers like claws. 

    However went out for posh meal. Meze in Brighouse, Greek and Turkish. It was absolutely delicious, a meze starter and fish platter main. Definitely a place to go back to.

    After a conversation last night, today I start a major clothes clear out. I'm keeping some thing purely as mementos of events. I'm really never going to wear a navy pinstripe suit with a mini skirt again! 

    Clearing my head and my wardrobe.

    Did anyone watch Cold Feet last week? Faye Ripley 's character perfectly expressed how I feel at the moment. So finally admitted it to myself and my family and things are falling into place to sort my head out as well.

  • Hi  

    Shame about the op being cancelled. Won’t be long before you can flex those fingers again . 

    The posh meal sounds delicious ...all a bit Greek for me RoflJoy

    my taste buds coming back but mouth still a bit sensitive . So restaurant spices a bit too hot for me. 

    I can confirm that sorting out wardrobes really does help sort the head out . Took me a while after retiring for business suits to disappear don’t know when I thought I was going to wear them again . 

    Second big clear out was 2days before mastectomy when putting button thru tops  at front . 

    Think I might be due another one . As well as charity donations I fill bags with things that are well worn and sell to clothes recycler then can either spend on me or donate money . 

    Must admit I think they have got it so right on cold feet you end up crying with Faye Ripley. 

    Ive been good and had conversation mainly because people were telling me how I must be feeling so much better now treatment finished !

    Err no ! Still on three weekly treadmill thanks. Plus we need to adjust to the new us . 

    Go ahead and fill that wardrobe with new stuff you need for your summer travels in the van . Oh ! And keep talking .

    margaret x

    One step at a time and ...Breathe !
    xoxox
    Margaret
  • What a delicious meal,!!

    And yes,clearing out clothes is cathartic,and gives space for the gorgeous new clothes you will wear!!

    yes I am watching Cold Feet.

    despite not liking it at first,it has really grown on me and I do agree with you about Faith Ripley’scharacted.I did find it a bit weird when she first came out of Surgery...but am beginning to love her!!xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Violetsniff

    I haven’t seen last weeks Cold Feet yet, will view it tomorrow. When I knew I was going to have to take some months off work I thought ‘what about all those films and box sets want to watch, all those books I want to read...) anyway I had always liked Cold Feet from the snatches I saw, but I never followed it properly. This was my first choice for cancer leave, I started watching S1 before I went off work and it carried me though the whole caboodle.  Hour after hour after hour! 

    So I was very pleased when it came back last year, about now, to mark my anniversary. I couldn’t believe what was happening with Jenny though I thought some of it wasn’t portrayed that well.

    Looking forward to catching up with it.

    Had a walk today but it was very cold and overcast. Raining now.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

     Pic from walk 

  • Always love a tree . Nordic walk yesterday in new area, which was exciting but no chance for photos. Familiar walk this morning before the rain - more snowdrops! Love to all, HFxx

    HappyFeet1 xx
    Don’t be afraid to cry. It will free your mind of sorrowful thoughts. – Hopi
  • Lovely photos as always. 

    Been really lazy today, sometimes you just need to!

    hugs xxx

    Moomy