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Sorted. Will send my list via e mail if you ping me your address. It’s in excel is that okay? You can add or delete as you need to as I only took 5 key concerns and rated them
Sorry you didn't have the news you wanted & have decisions to make xx
Good morning Fruit Loops. I hope today is a good day for all.
sorry you didn’t receive the news you were hoping for. Sadly the one thing you have to get used to on this journey is to expect the unexpected. Things can change, but the important thing to remember is that your team is working towards one important end goal and that’s to make you Cancer Free! There may be some big and some little bumps along the way, but they’ll do their best to get you there! So just keep that end goal in mind.
One question you could ask your surgeon depending on whether they are male or female is.... If it was your Wife, Daughter, Sister sitting here now what would you suggest they opt for? Just to see if that pushes them to give you a better idea of which option would be better!
Also just something else to think about and ask! IF you opted for the lumpectomy and they didn’t get clear margins (sorry but it is a possibility) would they then still require to do a mastectomy?
Whatever choice you make Hun,, has to be the right one for you based on all the information you can get. Definitely worth having a proper chat with your BCN as she’ll have all the information! I hope you are able to come to a decision that you are at peace with! I’m sure once you have chance to process what had been said you’ll begin to calm down. It was unexpected news yesterday, which is always a shock!
Just remember we are all here for you and ready to listen and support as best we can! Xxxx
GodWilling I have a VERY excited GUINEA PIG here! Sorry but he asked me to make it clear he was a Guinea Pig and NOT a hamster!! He’s looking forward to spending some time with you, possibly because you mentioned the magic word TREATS!
I hope LP behaves himself.......

More importantly I hope your appointment goes well. Sending Good Luck wishes your way! Hope it goes well Hun. Thinking of you. Sal xxx
Good morning all xx
hope you managed some rest and have a clear picture of who to call and what to ask xx
GodWilling will be thinking of you later at your appointment xx
hope your chemo assessment goes well xx
Anyone else with any appointments or treatments hope all goes well, take care all, huge hugs xx
Sending good wishes to all having treatments ,appointments today . Also thinking of those adjusting to treatment have a good day.
Pouring down here , so exercise today consists of moving wardrobes around and painting doors
An Earl great tea (which I recently found in my secret stash)for me please....Northernerthen I can greet the day.
So glad so many seem to be getting lots of help on here.
Northerneryou have a busy day ahead!xx
Its an ongoing lockdown project Violetsniff so no rush Main bedroom so large wardrobe and king bed . Therefore half of room done now furniture to move and rest to do . Wallpaper stripped off ,lining paper on walls and now painted Magnolia very restful . One wall left for feature paper . Once the room is decorated I'm then going to make decision whether to paint pine wardrobes.
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