My Dad 66yr old with bowel cancer stage 4 with liver mets

Dear Jacqui

I was so sorry to hear your news, what a guy to have managed to spend a very special time together in Spain this summer, he was a very strong man and you must be immensely proud of him and such a wonderful example to your boys.

You must have so many memories to draw on in these very tough times. We on this site are all thinking of you.

Much love Judy xx

So sorry to hear your news - I will be thinking of you and hope you and the boys are able to stay strong.

I would hug you if I could... Mandy

Oh Jacqui,

I am so sorry. I really hope you and the boys are surrounded with love and support . You have endured so much . You paid a beautiful tribute to your time together  and I hope you and your boys draw strength from your memories.

We are still here for you too.

Love Court

So sorry for your loss.....my .thoughts are with you and your boys....

Ann,

Your poor nerves must be shot to bits. I hope Nev is feeling better now. What a fright you must have had. How did the oncologist visit go? I really hope it went well.

I did feel I was quite accomplished in changing my avatar but it is a bit clearer than I imagined!! The fighter planes seem to have left the site. Where did they go?

Jules,

I totally understand that we are all experiencing different aspects of this journey and with the best will in the world our experiences can be limited. You are great on this thread and I hope others find you just as wonderful and supported on your new thread.  I know you will still keep popping in to your thread. This thread has helped us all along the way.

Also anyone is welcome to join in and participate.

Take care everyone,

Court

Hi all,

Sorry for the delayed message it took me a while to figure out the new layout

Jash really sorry for your loss im sure your emotions are all over the place at the moment on one hand he's not in any pain anymore which is the hardest thing to see towards the end but the reality that theyre gone always comes as a shock no matter how much time you have to prepare.

hope everyone else is ok. i managed to raise £1200 for the edinburgh cancer research trial doing the great north run and it was a year since my dad wednesday just gone and feel more positive that weve done something proactive, also read a book on holiday that helped me a lot, so generally not feeling too bad!

Jules Ill follow your other thread as im in similar situ to you but will keep popping on here too!

xxx

Hi All,

Just hoping everyone is ok!

Wriggles that was great you managed to run for a good cause. My mum was referred to Edinburgh for her last surgery and we thought very highly of them.

There is a lot here having hard times just now and just want to send my love to everyone enduring .

Look forward to hearing from you.

Love Court

Wriggles , I  have just put on BBC 2. Is your run the same as the GREAT EDINBURGH RUN!! If   so are you in the top four!!!

You have also just helped my son with his homework. " Mum do you know any words that start with a silent  letter?"  Yes. "WRIGGLES".

Anyway looks a hard run so I am very impressed!

Take care,

Court

Court, I have absolutely no idea what youre talking about!!lol. I did the great north run in newcastle, not the great edinburgh run, and raised money for the edinburgh trial thats on the cancer research 'my projects' website, unfotunately i think i was about the 39,000th person to cross the finish line..not 4th!lol

thanks though! x

Oh its fine I worked it out as the winner of the Edin run had also run the Northern one. I am not a runner so I am not up on the names. They only followed the top four runners!!  Bad attempt at humour.

Take care,

Court