Well I am struggling to get my head round the fact we are now in Dec!
Not even got a photo to share , however I will get one and we shall press on .
Off to the hospital for an appointment with mum today . Think they might see some progress .
Hope today is kind whatever you are up to .
Court
Good evening Court I don’t come on the forum much. But just doing a quick catch up on some posts. I am so glad your boys are supporting you, but I am not surprised by it why wouldn’t they? The apples don’t fall from the tree! I am glad and warmed that your lovely mum is getting a bit stronger. One day at a time is all we can all do, just keep going one foot in front of the other with time to rest inbetween too, along with breath and be still.
Hi process
My dad always said “ It’s one day at a time “ . I think of that often now .
The boys are great . I am quietly learning the full impact of grief but still so grateful for all the love he gave us .
Mum is doing what she does best . Pushing forward in spite of difficult circumstances. She had a lovely afternoon with my cousins son and girlfriend. Each day she tries to go a little further . So many changes to her meds we have to help out on that front . But as we know on this form the little changes can lead to bigger changes . Pressing forward in spite of it all has carried us forward on so many occasions.
Take care ,
Court
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Hi Gemmary
What an interesting post . Despite it not being pretty it’s the process of healing ! Not thought of it that way before .
Pulled myself out for a walk . The house definitely feels warmer when you come back in so that a positive but if your are around the central belt of Scotland it’s a beautiful clear night and Mars is visible till Thursday . Not be visible for another decade apparently but you can see it clearly . Worth a look .
Court
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Best not to talk footie. How about this as a distraction?

Lovely, Wellspring was it white today!? Kept trying to snow here, without much success!
Stay warm everyone!
It’s snowing down here in Surrey, and settling. Very Christmassy for the early carol services. The photo was taken on Thursday when it was bright and chilly.
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