FEMALE BLADDER CANCER

I slept better before op day too.It was strange how calm I felt on the journey over to the hospital.I had been so nervous but had the feeling it would be ok and I had great faith in my surgeon.He is one of the top urologists in the country.x

That will be a lovely and something positive to focus on.You should be feeling a lot stronger by then.X

Congratulations, will this be your first grandchild?

I’m so glad I joined this group, you are all supportive and it’s good to hear from people in the same situation xxxx

I don’t know what I would have done without this group during lockdown.I’m so pleased you are finding it helpful.

Exactly xxx

Oh that’s a lovely event to focus on-congratulations! Hopefully you will be recovering well by that time and able to enjoy your new grandchild.

Sarah xx

Yes  she’s the first, they’re naming her Ava xxx

How exciting, and how clever of them to know the baby’s name already! I have a little Scottish great-niece called Ava. 
I hope you have ways to help you calm your nerves- when I can get myself to do it, I find EFT (‘tapping’) does help -i use an app. Also meditation, breathing exercises, yoga when feeling strong. I was doing eft like mad while waiting for 3 hours on wednesday morning at the hospital for my 2nd TURBT.   I am very relieved that’s done and looking forward to news about what they found and what’s next. This time was so much easier than the 1st, and having a night in hospital was v helpful. I wish you well, before during and after your big op.

Got my appointment for my TURBT results - Tuesday 14th March