My dad will be having a turbt in the next few weeks. He’s 88 but very fit and able for his age and I’m just looking for advice from people who have had this procedure about how much support he’ll need when discharged from hospital.
He won’t be able to drive for 3 days (according to the consultant), but that’s all he’s been told.
Will he need someone to be cooking and cleaning for him? Will he manage stairs to go to the toilet?
Is there anything you could share about how you felt afterwards and what we need to do for him. I’m thinking that it may be best if he moves in with me for a few days - downstairs toilet etc but I am not in his health board area, so will that complicate things - will there be aftercare at home required by a nurse?
Hi I’ve just had this about 5 weeks ago and wasn’t told a lot after about what to be aware of by the hospital, I can not tell you of my own personal experience. So I went in at 1 o’clock and was discharged from the hospital at 20:30 only after passing a certain amount, since then it’s been quite awkward as the anaesthetic has not agreed with me and I’ve had constipation for a few weeks now so I’ve been given laxatives, I’m not sleeping very well as it can irritate the bladder, so I’m going to the toilet every hour for the whole 24 hour day, I’m on week 6 now and that’s not changed as it turns out I’ve now got prostatitis which is inflaming the area around where I’ve had the operation so I’ve been given tablets to sort and hopefully once that gets sorted the rest will fall in line, I’m currently having mytomycin every Monday, currently on week 2 of 6, all I can say is if there’s any issues flag it straight away, don’t suffer and think it will go away on its own. As I say these are my problems, I hope he sails through it as we all have a different way of dealing with things biologically, hope he gets through it ok
Hi RoobyRed04b9d4 . Good to know dad has his TURBT procedure booked. If all goes smoothly without any issues, he may be home the same day or maybe an overnight stay. He will wake up with a catheter. This will be removed before he goes home but sometimes people are sent home with a catheter in. In general, people can take care of themselves as long as they take things easy for a while. It may be wise if you can look after him for a few days because sometimes people have a delayed reaction to anaesthetic. It will be slightly painful for a few days when peeing and there may be some signs of blood. This is normal as long as not excessive. It is important he drinks up to 2 litres of water a day in order to flush any debris out. Some people recommend a touch of lemon barley to help getting the water down. I am sure others will have some suggestions. Best wishes.
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