Hello my name is AnnieC and this is my first message. After being treated with radiotherapy and chemo for bladder cancer. I felt great, more energy, weight gain appetite returned. I thought I was cured. I then had an MRI and another small tumour was found. No more radiotherapy because of scarring so now I am having my bladder removed. I am a fit and energetic 75 year old. I am quite scared because of the unknown. I am also a carer for my husband who is partially paralysed from a stroke. Doctors keep telling me to think of myself but it’s hard. Fortunately I have a carer so he will be looked after while I am in hospital. I would be grateful for any help and info from anyone who has had this op
Hi AnnieC,Welcome to our friendly group.I’m sorry to hear your cancer is back.I had bladder removal back in 2019.I was a carer for my late mother then.It is hard to have to think of yourself because you automatically put the person you care for first.If you can get as fit as possible before the op that will help.A few of us on here have had this surgery and can help and support you through it so ask any questions.Jane
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