My partners Cancer returned a 3rd time, and we are not at cycle 6 of chemotherapy, as this is all that can be offered. this will hopefully slow the onset of the aggeressive cancer, which has already escaped the bladder and his lymph and is travelling up his back. i am his partner of 47+ years and guide him through treatments/ attend appointments/help manage with life etc.
i am also managing my own treatment of breast cancer following the major treatments, ie surgery, chemo and radiotherapy, ie long term drugs.
Its getting difficult... because he almost doesn't or cant accept the importance of having to inform the doctor of all and any minor bleeds.
I'm concerned some days he may not be fully concentrating when driving, taking risks. i drive some days but he likes driving and insists on doing so.
He became nauseous after a morning bath - i'd suggested for safety best to have at night, rather than in the morning... but and then he fainted and fell onto me and the pavement. i put him in recovery position, but was frightened... I'm not sure how to move forward, i don't want to begin nagging as i've seen others, but struggle to find the right way of guiding him, any suggestions.
I'm exhausted, and we had an incident at work yesterday of which i've literraly just discovered, my friends horse had to be put down due to twisted gut.
I'm struggling with technology, the ilogic of it, neither of us having a smart phone,..why is everything so complicated... how do we pick up...
