Hi
i have been fighting lung cancer and I have two chronic illnesses. My gynae noticed something not quite right on my anus. I am devastated. I bleed. Feel full of poop all time. Ache badly and very uncomfortable. I put it down to piles but she said no it needs investigating. I am going to colorectal first appt Monday. I am cringing with embarrassment and dreading it. What should I expect please?
Hi Yvonned & welcome to our little corner of the MacMillan Online Community although I’m so sorry to hear of everything you’ve been going through.
I can only offer my own experience at my initial colorectal appointment so here goes. I was referred via my GP following a visit regarding an external polyp that had bled a couple of times when wiping after using the loo. My GP had given me an internal examination & said whatever it was seemed to be growing inwards & put me on the 2 week pathway to a local colorectal team.
At that first appointment I was given another rectal examination by a registrar who suspected I had an external polyp that had led to an internal ulcer forming, he went on to say I’d receive an appointment for a flexible sigmoidoscopy & a day case appointment to go in & have the polyp removed & the ulcer repaired, the wait time would be approximately 3-4 weeks. I went home relieved that it was nothing more serious. I then got a call from the colorectal consultant later that evening saying he wanted me in sooner rather than later & could I come in for the surgery on the Monday morning where they’d do the surgery & the sigmoidoscopy at the same time. During that surgery he took a biopsy instead of doing what was planned & the rest is history so to speak!
I know it’s only natural but try not to be embarrassed, these doctors deal with peoples bottoms & everything colon related all day every day so they’ve already seen it all. I feel that after being diagnosed with anal cancer in February 2018 & going through surgery, treatment, recovery & 5 years of surveillance appointments that the world & his wife have seen my nether regions now so all feelings of embarrassment have long deserted me.
I hope your appointment on Monday goes well & it turns out to be nothing of concern, you have enough on your plate by the sounds of things. Please let us know how you get on.
Nicola
Hello Yvonned
Another welcome from me although I am sorry you have had to find yourself here and that you have lung cancer that you are fighting too.
I can completely understand your embarrassment but please remember that this is the doctor's job; this particular medical speciality is the subject he/she has actively chosen to do. Every single examination I have had the doctors, without fail, have put me at my ease. I honestly don't bat an eyelid any more.
It is possible that the doctor will further investigate with either a colonoscopy or a biopsy under GA. And remember, that is only if they think it is necessary.
Please let us know how you get on.
Sending a hig hug
Irene xx
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