Hello everyone,
It's 21 days since I posted last, when I was anticipating starting treatment soon. That didn't turn out to be the case, though things have moved on and I have dates in the diary. Following the histology, further, more detailed tests were needed which added to the wait time, but even so, it's felt like a long drag.
My oncologist is the sort of man I can talk to and very good at answering questions and explaining everything in great detail - which I prefer. So it was a relief to find somebody who I find relatable.
I've just had my planning CT yesterday and have more bloods booked for the following week with Picc line insertion for 27th. At 8am! This requires setting the alarm clock for 5. Joy! This will be a lovely way to spend my wedding anniversary!
Then it's all the way back the next morning to have it checked.
Treatment kicks off on March 2nd. As well as the anus, they will be irradiating pelvic and groin lymph nodes and I've been warned that lymphodema is virtually gauranteed. I've read all about this. Bloody hell. What a malarky.
The chemo is via IV and my hospital do not use the pills. They said the pills make you more sick. Makes sense I guess - they're going straight into your stomach.
Have received support over the transport worries, with the hospital transport helping out every other day, so my husband isn't having to do the long drive every day. That will be one less thing to worry about as it's such an exhausting trip.
No backing out now!
Rainie x
Hi Rainieday its good you have a start date, the time will pass quickly, also a plus that you like your oncologist i always think that helps and in a weird way makes things easier. You may have read it or been advised already but as you are having a picc i would buy a limbo sleeve for showering, i bought one from a recomodation on here and it was brilliant. Good luck for the 2nd. Sending hugs. Xx
Hello Rainieday
I am so pleased that you have a rapport with your oncologist; it makes the world of difference when you are really at your most vulnerable and having so many things going in circles in your head.
Just to let you know, during pelvic radiotherapy I also had pelvic lymph nodes treated, and far be it from me to disagree with the experts - but I will anyway! I have quite a few side effects from radiotherapy but have never had lymphodema. And, in my years on the forum, I have only heard in mentioned a couple of times. Other forum users, I am happy to be corrected!
That must be a relief that you have help with the transport, that's a long journey you have. Remember your cushion!
Irene xx
I would agree Irene - I had no lymphodema, and I haven't seen it mentioned here either, and as you know we have a lot of side effects on this forum!
That's good to know Irene. Maybe I will get away without leg issues. Fingers crossed. Have cushion to hand
Rainie x
Hi Rainieday , it’s great to hear you’ve a start date & also that you’ve a good relationship with your oncologist. I was lucky that I had a lovely oncologist looking after me & he answered endless questions for me (I’m an information is power kinda gal!).
My chemo regime was infusion day one & oral capecitabine each day of treatment thereafter, my oncologist told me the oral chemo is gentler on your system but different Dr’s have different views I suppose.
I agree with the other members that have commented that lymphoedema isn’t something I’ve seen discussed here very often at all. Obviously this doesn’t mean it doesn’t occur but I hope you escape it too.
I hope your planning scan went ok yesterday & the very best of luck for the 27th.
Nicola
Hello Rainieday,
I had hoped you would have started treatment by now and the waiting must feel interminable but it’s good that you now have a clear plan and dates.
It’s also good to hear that you have got some support with transport every other day as it sounds like a long round trip for you.
Your Oncologist sounds good and it’s so helpful to have a good rapport and clear explanations.
I had lymph nodes irradiated and can say that I didn’t experience any lymphoedema so hopefully the same for you.
Wishing you all the best for your picc line insertion and for the start of treatment. Just sorry that you’re having to undergo treatment again and feel for you.
xx
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