Hi all, about 3hrs ago my parents told me my Dad has approx 3months without treatment or up to 12months with treatment to live. This is has happened so fast, he only went to the doctors 4 weeks ago with a nack ache. Im so close to my dad, he is my hero. I dont know what ill do without him. I feel guilty feeling this sad whilst he is the one with the diagnosis. He was more concerned about me when he told me than himself. Why does this happen to good people.
I want to be there to support my parents but also work and have a 2 Autistic children to support, I feel like I need to split on half. I just want to be with me Dad as much as I can and be there for my mum also.
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