My mother in law ceased treatment and is in end of life care.
District nurse and hospice visiting regularly.
My wife and stepdaughter take turns in providing care, shopping and anything else that is needed.
I am being looked to as the bedrock in regard to emotional support.
Wife iand stepdaughter are constantly reminding me that they will completely mentally and emotionally breakdown when the inevitable comes.
On the surface, I am keeping calm and helping where I can, doing any little errand and job at a moment's notice, but as I see my Mother in Law on a less regular basis, I notice the deterioration in her health as opposed to seeing her everyday.
I know that the end is coming, but am struggling to find the words that help.
We are all mentally and physically exhausted, so I understand how my wife and stepdaughter are reacting.
What can I do to be there and be strong, even when my emotional armour is cracking under the weight of what the future will bring
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