Mum has terminal cancer

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Hi,

I’m not sure where to even start with this. I found out mum has liver cancer that has progressed to advanced cancer in her stomach and back. We’ve been told she has worst case 6 months, best case 9 maybe even a year but that’s it.

I don’t even know how to begin to even process this or how to be strong enough for mum as we’re so close. How have people managed to process this, has anything in particular helped? I feel like I’m an emotional wreck and don’t want to upset mum or make her feel worse.

Thanks so much x

MeganRose85 6 days ago

Hello, I too have just found out my mam has terminal cancer. My heart absolutely goes out to you and I can relate so much. My mam and I are so close. I have no words of comfort as I’m on the same terrifying journey as you. However, possibly something can be gained by sharing experiences and connecting with others.

All I know is I’m going to have to really pay attention to my own self care to enable me to be there for her. I’m drawing in my internal and external resources to be my scaffolding.

its such a earth shattering thing to feel. I hope you can be kind to yourself with whatever comes up. X

sleepypee 6 days ago in reply to MeganRose85

Thank you so much!

I’m so sorry you’re in the same situation, sending all my love and support to you.

Definitely, this is never something you think you need to prepare for and it’s awful. I’m here if you need any support/someone to talk to throughout our journeys.

I agree with the self care part and will try my best too xx

MeganRose85 6 days ago in reply to sleepypee

The same goes for you, perhaps we can continue to share our journey.

thank you. Wishing you all the support. X

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