My sister had breast cancer 3 years ago. Full masectomy and chemo, all goinv good. Headsches anc dizzy gor a few months and then In August found it had spread to brain, stomach and bones.after an a and e visit. Doctors thought was all just her BP!.
She is now in a care home. Told 5 weeks ago 3 to I weeks. She sits waiting to die, very sad little pain as its managed
But my heart breaks seeing her so scared and lost.
Who is there for her to talk about next steps in this dadt and furious Road she's now on.
Oncologists now gone.... care home care but she needs emotional support ,. Hospice were called a week ago to assist.
Any ideas ?
Much appreciated xx
Hi ClaireP
I'm very sorry to hear about your sister. It must be heartbreaking for you to see her struggling and expecting her death. Has your sister been seen by her GP, can they offer any support or signposting? Does the care home have any gardens or wheelchairs? Is your sister well enough for short visits out for fresh air, in a wheelchair?
If your sister is able to, there are support lines that she will be able to ring. Anxiety UK is an infoline service for people affected by anxiety, stress and anxiety based depression. (Tel 0344 477 5774). CALM (campaign against living miserably) is a helpline for people who are down or have hit a wall for any reason. (Tel 0800 585858).
These services may also be of use to you
Hospice UK Tel 020 7520 8200. Website www.hospiceuk.org
Marie Curie Tel 0800 090 2309 website www.mariecurie.org.uk
I hope that these services may be of use to you both. Best regards.
A x
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