I don't even know if this is the right place to begin. My mom has been diagnosed with terminal cancer of the oesophagus on Monday. She had only been getting 'indigestion' 5 weeks ago, a course of antibiotics did nothing to a suspected stomach infection so an endoscopy 2 weeks ago showed a tumour, a week later confirmed cancer cells and Monday just past, terminal. Naturally, we are all devastated. We have never experienced anyone we know go through cancer so I have no idea about how it's all going to continue except sheer pain and sadness. I have no idea on her entitlement to anything so any advice would be much appreciated. I want her to have the best of everything and anything she's entitled to to make the best of what time we have left.
Stay safe everyone xx
Hi there,
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum, a terminal cancer diagnosis is really difficult to comprehend and especially in uncertain times with coronavirus. My mum was too diagnosed with a stage 4 cancer a couple of weeks ago, she has a brain tumour called glioblastoma, it came as a massive shock as the symptoms of the brain tumour we put down to being her epilepsy playing up.
I too am interested in anything my mum would be entitled too to mean she can live her best life. Coronavirus scares the life out of me when it comes to her diagnosis, she is soon starting chemo for 6 months and things feel so uncertain, will she have to shield the whole time? 6 months now could be a big chunk of her life...
I’m sorry that I can’t offer you and advice, but something I would like is being able to talk with people going through the same thing as me. It feels quite isolating when a parent is diagnosed with a terminal cancer, I almost feel like no one understands what I’m going through as none of my friends have experienced something like this. So finding support elsewhere is good and that’s why I’m here I suppose!
Hi Lorzie and D1998
I notice that these posts were written 3 months ago, so I wanted to check in with you both .... I know everyone reacts different to treatment and I hope your Mum's are keeping strong
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