Father with lung cancer with brain mets

Hi, my sister is 38 and has been told she has terminal lung cancer. I’m lost!!! 

We are still awaiting 2 more test results to see what / if any treatments can be offered x 

Oh I'm so sorry to hear. It's such a terrible shock when they say it's cancer. 38? Gosh that's my age also. Do they know if it has spread anywhere else at all? I have gone through so many emotions these past months from denial, guilt anger, and I am still lost. Hopefully it hasn't spread for her and they can treat it with radiotherapy or Chemotherapy. I really feel for you.....it's this waiting for test results and decisions which is the hardest part.

Unfortunately it’s in both lungs, lymph nodes and second vertebrae - it’s just awful. She has 3 young children and I’m her only sibling.

She is at the hospital next Wednesday - hopefully we will know more. 

I feel your pain with the demons, I’ve started having nightmares, thinking about funeral costs and worrying about the children as she has no insurances etc x