hi susan and amanda, been having problems posting on the other post so thought i would carry on here and see if it works!! how has your weekend been? susan do things feel a little easier for you this year or not really? i feel so sorry for you having all those people around you last year when i bet all you wanted to do was run didnt you? its awful with christmas coming isnt it i even go shopping online as to not have to go shopping with all the xmas things about. i feel so selfish and bitter at the moment and dont want to, i can hear my mum saying come on karen dont be like that but its hard isnt it. i feel so lonely tonight i just want to talk and have a cuddle and a kiss with my mum, sometimes it really hits even harder doesnt it? speak to you both soon, and hope you are bearing up. we all need each other dont we? my love and thoughts are with you love karen xxxxx
how fatastic about what happened to you, not daft at all, i believe in all of that, it must have made you feel lovely, i had a few tears reading all bout it, i wish it would happen to me one day.
i will tell you what happened to my sister, my dad passed away in oct , then my mum in sept. shortly after my mum passed my sister was falling asleep and my dad came to her and took her to where he is, she said it was a beautiful place and dad was playing pool and smoking a cigarette, he took her to where he sleeps in a room, my sister asked where mum was and he said she wont be here yet but she is on her way. he said he was happy and she said he looked so gorgeous (as he always did), and he looked so well. my sister said you will look after mum wont you? and he said yes of course i will, that is very comforting isnt it? how lovely to know they will both be together now and happy, and waiting for us when it is our time to go. will let you know another time about my message at the church. we might be going tonight, so will let you know how it goes.
take care, speak soon, lots of love and hugs karen xxx
Thanks so much for your post.I was beginning to think people would think I was a bit crazy.How lovely about your Mum, AND your Dad on exactly the same night had a visit too!!!There must be something else mustn’t there?I haven’t had any dreams about my Mum, I wish she would come through to me. (have had a few funny signs though). Will speak soon, take care love jayne xxx
Well, the more I read, the more I am absolutely certain that we do go on.And you (and everyone else) will get the same experience, it will happen, not sure when but I’m sure it will.My Mum still hasn’t come through yet.But I think she is probably telling Dad all about everything that’s happened in the last 13 years, although I don’t know why, because he’s been watching and knows all about it anyway!!
That’s amazing what happened to your sister.They are together now, no doubt about it.Is it just coincidence that both your Dad and my Dad said they are happy, and actually showed us where they were, no I don’t think so.Why would people get the same experience if it wasn’t true?We can't all be nuts…….. can we?I’m really looking forward to hearing about your message at the church.Please let us all know.Take care, love jayne xxx
I don’t know if anyone is interested but I have been reading Gordon Smith, he has written 4 books so far.His latest one is good, and just finished one called ‘Through My Eyes’, it may help some of you to understand your grief and may also help you understand about why I feel there is something after this life.(although I believed this before I read the books, it has really just confirmed it for me).And now reading your experiences, it makes me think even more that there is something after this life.If you are interested, go onto amazon.com and type in Gordon Smith, but don’t buy them from amazon, go onto the compare price thingy.I got one for 99p (new) and then just paid 2.75 p&p.I’m hooked, he’s brilliant.
thanks for the info on gordon smith i will have a look. i have read a lot of books on grief/bereavement and the after life somehow it gives me some comfort does it you? have just bought all doris stokes books they are great, def a good buy.
didnt go to church tonight you have to be geared up and in the right frame of mind dont you? but when we got our message it was me and my sister who went, she said i have your dad and your mum here, but it was mum who spoke, she said your mum cant believe shes doing this (which would be spot on), and she said whos kelly, well she is my mums granddaughter she said isnt she gorgeous (also very spot on just what she used to say), and whos danny well hes my youngest and she said hes gorgeous and a lovely boy (also just what she used to say), my mum was also saying her brother and his name and that he was very cut up about mum, and that we were going away abroad (which we did to spain), she said she was happy, and that it was someones birthday and they were having a pint, which was true as that day it was my dads birthday, so there must be something after here, how could she get all those names and things correct. it gives me some comfort to know they are there watching over us, but especially that they are ok and happy. hope youre having a good day, take care, speak soon, lots of love karen xxx
Yes, they do give me lots of comfort too. Its good to at least think that there may be something else and that our mums and dads are watching us (not all the time though i hope!). Another good medium is a lady called Sylvia Browne, she has worked with Gordon Smith (shes american, so some of the talking is a bit different). That was great about your mum coming through. How would anyone have known those things if it hadnt been your mum. Its not as though they can find out before hand is it. I keep thinking that about Colin Fry, if he did that, he would be forever trying to research people, and the amount of people in the audience, would he be able to do that?? Dont know. I suppose the only way we will ever find out for sure is when we go to meet our mums and dads, and as much as i miss them both, i'm not ready to go yet. Take care Karen, love jayne xxx
I promise I have been to bed but baby just woke up, so now I am awake and not ready to go back to sleep. It is quite funny when you read that others are doing the same as you, I went to Colin Fry shows last year - on mums birthday where I dragged my dad, brother, his girlfriend and my mums sisters along so we had a nice meal before hand in memory of my mum!! We did not get read that night, he takes his time with the readings so doesnt fit too many in about four each half, I also went when he was near my home (live in Welwyn Garden City) so show in Stevenage - had to go because it was so close that was with Colin Fry and Tony Stockwell - no readings again, but my mother in law recomended Gordon Smith and when I looked on his site they had just announced their London date which was eve of my mums anniversary (25th Feb - mum passed on 26th)..... So of course I have booked tickets, the strange thing is I debated over amount of tickets to order, should I just get two for me and dad? Then I thought no, my brother and his girlfriend might want to come and of course we will all prob be together anyway (I also thought about mums sisters but thought I cant drag everyone again) so ordered 4 tickets they came a few weeks later and two envelopes were delivered on same day, one with the four I had ordered, the other with two more tickets in!!! How strange - I told my mums sisters that I think they are supposed to be coming too!! I really do hope these people are genuine, I guess it gives us all hope and that at the moment is what many of us need, just to think that it is not all for no reason and that their suffereing was not in vain. And I guess for those of us that do believe and it helps then great and for those that dont believe in mediums but have their own ways of coping then that is great too, its just interesting to read about diff experiences and thoughts so thanks for sharing, it does help you to feel less 'mad' somehow!! Goodnight all I am going to try and get back to sleep, lets hope that Josie stays that way too!!!
xx Amanda
I hope you (and Josie) managed to get some sleep.That’s great about Gordon Smith, I wish I were coming, I’d love to see him.And on the eve of mums anniversary as well, that’s a real coincidence isn’t it.How weird about the two lots of tickets arriving, did you order the 2 that came in the other envelope or did they just arrive?It sounds like it will be a real good night out, I hope you get a reading.Yes, I hope these people are genuine as well, but then as you say, it does give you hope.I know everyone copes in different ways and whatever their beliefs are doesn’t matter as long as it helps them through the bad days, and some days it’s the only thing that gets me through, just the thought that Mum and Dad are ok and together now.
