BOB JK My diary of kidney cancer (to be continued)

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Hi, My name is Bob and I live in Cambridgeshire. I am married with an 8 yr old daughter and three older step sons. Up untill the end of last year everything was tickety boo having recently moved to a new house which we love. Work was busy but enjoyable. I am Manager of an electrical companys maintenance department and my Wife, Linda was enjoying her job as a Nurse. The three boys are buying there own house nearby and all work locally.
In November I went to my Doctors with a small "cyst" on my chest. After a couple of referals and many Xrays, pet scans, bone scans and CT scans I was told the news everybody dreads. My lump on the chest was a secondary cancer of which the primary was in my left Kidney. I was fast tracked to the Royal Brompton, under the expert care of Mr Laddas who informed a long and complicated operation would need to be carried out to remove the bone tumor and surrounding bone which involved two ribs,my collar bone and chest bone. I did not have time to panic, the operation was carried out the next day over 10 hrs. After nearly two weeks in the Brompton I am recovering well from this op but I have since been told that the Cancer is in both kidneys as well as small mets in both lungs. It seems at the moment further ops are out the question and i have been put on the drug Sutent. I am one week into this and so far so good. I do not know what the future holds but I have to remain positive.
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    Im ok matey, decorated mums house for Christmas today as she did, a little tough, but proud Ive done it,

    My home is Portugal at the mo with my bloke, bit torn cos my 75 year old Dad is here home alone, still its only one day, to get through

    Whats your plans? you Linda and Kate at home Christmas day?

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    Yep, we brought a fabulous tree and decorated it and we are staying at home with all the family comming over, we wouldn't want it any other way
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    Sound perfect Bob
    how many you got visiting?
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    There wll be Linda, myself and Kate along with stepsons Matt, Justin and Tom, his fiance also called Katie and Lindas mum and dad. And I also plan to do the cooking. I want to make this christmas perfect as you never knoe it could be my last. Not being negative, just realistic.
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    Quite a housefull then!! brilliant family is what its all about,
    Bob 3 years ago we spent "Mams" last christmas, she went 6 months ago, a lot older than you my friend, only god knows mate
    enjoy, you feeling any better yet? sitting up? has that yuccy taste gone? hope so buddy
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    Well after sitting up for what must be an hour reflux has improved albeit not totally gone so I guess id btter try and get some sleep. Nite to kate and all
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    Sweet dreams Bob, Linda and Kate
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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    Well after a bad nights sleep we eventually ended up at tescos. We got a few more bits together before comming home and I spent the rest of the day asleep. Tonight we are at an awards ceremony to honour someone who I used to work with during my time as a St John volunteer. Although my energy is zero I am looking foreward to going out with Linda, Big brother Justin is looking after Kate tonight. Tonight I am hoping for a better nights sleep.
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    A really good evening was had by all. It was very emotional for me as there were some fantastic youngsters being honoured for their bravery in battling cancers and other illnesses. I was so privaleged to be there and see them honoured. Also the person I nominated won the section I had nominated her for and won a fantastic 3 day break to Edingborough, what an evening.
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    Glad you had a good day,Bob,hope you will now be contentedly tired and have a good nights sleep tonight,ready for more adventures tomorrow,lol
    much love Sheree xx