BOB JK My diary of kidney cancer (to be continued)

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Hi, My name is Bob and I live in Cambridgeshire. I am married with an 8 yr old daughter and three older step sons. Up untill the end of last year everything was tickety boo having recently moved to a new house which we love. Work was busy but enjoyable. I am Manager of an electrical companys maintenance department and my Wife, Linda was enjoying her job as a Nurse. The three boys are buying there own house nearby and all work locally.
In November I went to my Doctors with a small "cyst" on my chest. After a couple of referals and many Xrays, pet scans, bone scans and CT scans I was told the news everybody dreads. My lump on the chest was a secondary cancer of which the primary was in my left Kidney. I was fast tracked to the Royal Brompton, under the expert care of Mr Laddas who informed a long and complicated operation would need to be carried out to remove the bone tumor and surrounding bone which involved two ribs,my collar bone and chest bone. I did not have time to panic, the operation was carried out the next day over 10 hrs. After nearly two weeks in the Brompton I am recovering well from this op but I have since been told that the Cancer is in both kidneys as well as small mets in both lungs. It seems at the moment further ops are out the question and i have been put on the drug Sutent. I am one week into this and so far so good. I do not know what the future holds but I have to remain positive.
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    (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))) Linda.........I hope you too have a restful night

    My love to you, Bob and Kate

    ((((hugs))))  Dot xxxx

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    I hope Bob gets a comfortable night i hope you get some rest too Linda

    Love and hugs to you ,Bob ,and Kate

    love Janice xx

     

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    No words dear Linda, just one very heart felt (((((((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))

    Love Maryxxxxxx

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    And (((((((((hugs)))))))))))) from me too.

    Charles

  • (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) for you all from me, too, Linda......xxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Moomy

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    After a quite distressing late evening with breathing issues, Bob settled and had a very peaceful night. He has had some breakfast and guess what he is eating his first ice cream of the day.

    Thank you for all your messages.

    Linda x x

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    Dear Linda

    I hope that both you and Bob managed to get some rest last night, and that today remains comfortable for Bob. Take care  sending you my admiration and love

    Kaz x

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    Good morning Bob, Linda and Kate.  So glad to hear Bob had a restful night and is a little better this morning.  Linda, I know how hard it can be to watch someone struggle with this wretched illness.  You wish you could take some of it away for them and endure it yourself.  Bob is such a fighter and believe me when I say that I am a better person for reading his diary.  Sending you all love and hugs and hoping you enjoy your day together.

    Elaine x

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    What a wonderful photo.  Thanks so much for posting it.

    Elaine x