My beautiful daughter-in-law has cancer. Over a period of three years, she had a mastecomy and now has secondaries. My son and daughter-in-law are very much in love and he is a tremendous support to her. I want to support him, but I don't know how to. He dotes on his wife and is fierecly protective of her. He does everything in his power to make her happy and they have the most wonderful loving relationship. I know he must be hurting so much, but is so focussed on supporting his wife that he doesn't think about himself. I don't know whether to just let them alone, but as a mother I want to support my son, i wish I could take the hurt away from them both. I wish I lived nearer to them but they live a 100miles away and I don't get to see them very often. I phone them, but I feel very frustrated that I am not able to be with them. Can anyone offer me any advice on how I can support my son.
