Mum is Terminal

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Hi everyone,

I've been putting off posting for a long time and I'm not sure why as I know we all can truly relate and empathise with each other. My incredible Mum was diagnosed with Stage 3 lung cancer in Dec 2023 but in February of this year we found out the treatment didn't work and she now has 9 brain tumours, cancer in both lungs and cancer in her bones (femur). She is declining so rapidly and it's like I'm in a nightmare I can't wake up from. I have moved back in to support her but my Stepdad is just angry and trying to keep distracted at all times so I feel very alone.

My Mum is my rock. My best friend and to watch her speech slow, her not be able to move without significant help, her cry everyday and her eyes/vision and skin change colour is something I would never wish on anyone. I feel sick and helpless everyday. I am so awfully sorry to anyone going through this. It is horrific and I love my Mum more than anyone in this world and wish I could take it away from her. 

Thank you for giving me a safe space to share this. Sending everyone so much love and strength.

xxx