I’ve recently had a tumour found on my adrenal gland. Am this far it’s 50/50 as to if it’s benign or malignant, but the tumour itself has other very serious implications. Since this has been happening and I am getting more unwell, my wife has become less supportive and almost angry with me as though I’ve done something wrong. She’s making it about her and all I want is a pass for my irritability- which is a symptom by the way- but she reacts and causes arguments and makes it about her. She explained she’s scared and I get that and I’m not a sympathy seeker. I just want a little bit of a pass sometimes. I tell her to ignore me if I’m a bit aggy but she can’t stop reacting. It’s making me really sad and I feel like I’m losing the person I love for all the wrong reasons. Has anyone else had anything similar to this?
